badRobot wrote:
But now all over sudden your favorite philosophy "what works for one person might not work for another person" doesn't apply to actually deeply subjective and individual thing, personal life preferences? Like, WTF?
This is so weird to me, I just can't wrap my mind around this mentality.
I see what you are saying here, and I agree.
kraftiekortie wrote:
Sex should never be a “planned” thing.
kraftiekortie wrote:
I've had "planned" sex before; it just doesn't do it for me. I'm talking from experience.
Your "experience" is exactly that. It's anecdotal and doesn't necessarily apply to anyone but you. It would be more accurate to say "In my bedroom, sex is something I prefer not to be 'planned'." I'm not invalidating
your view, but it just doesn't apply to everyone else.
All of that being said...I've had both planned and unplanned sex. I prefer the latter, but I can see how people with tight or complicated schedules (or even kids running around) would benefit greatly from the former. Many people trying to have children also do a LOT of planned sex. I'm not saying that they all enjoy this process, but I'm sure that many do.
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