kraftiekortie wrote:
Bizarre to you---not bizarre to me.
I just don't see the "contradiction."
If you want to believe in "planned" sex, go right ahead. No skin off my back.
'Everyone is individual, everyone is entitled to have their own opinion, what works one one person, might not work for another', yet 'sex should never be a "planned" thing', BUT 'if you want to believe in "planned" sex, go right ahead'.
So, basically, what you are saying is you have a strong belief that 'sex should never be a "planned" thing'. But "what works one one person, might not work for another" applies to your opinion, not the idea that planned sex might work for some people and not for others.
I'm laughing tears now. Again, I'm not arguing, just impossible to ignore how this reached absurd levels of 'person-centered' or whatever it is.