Do we have more luck getting one night stands?

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14 Jul 2022, 9:53 pm

I got my license at 37 because I wasn’t ready before that. I really wanted to get my license much earlier. Still, not having a license didn’t really affect my “prospects.”

I first owned a car at age 51. I needed a car to work in Nassau County, which is immediately east of Queens County. I also live in a part of Queens where cars are almost essential.



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16 Jul 2022, 2:05 pm

Well as far as more being able to get one night stands more than relationships and dating experiences, sometimes women I go out with will ask me how many relationships I have had and when I give the a low number for my age, and they ask why, I just told them that women are just more interested in sex in my experience than dating. But does it sound bad if a person says that too a date?



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16 Jul 2022, 2:12 pm

I can only speak for my self but I've never had trouble with getting one night stands. The problem for me was always getting rid of my shag the day after.

I used to always think it was easier to just have casual sex and stay away from long term relationships. I mean you can love a person for just one night and that's perfect and just leave it that way. That always seemed more attractive to me.


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18 Jul 2022, 12:45 am

Why would the person be clingy towards you the day after? Can this be a good thing, since it means that getting more than sex may not be as challenging for you therefore?



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18 Jul 2022, 6:49 am

ironpony wrote:
Well as far as more being able to get one night stands more than relationships and dating experiences, sometimes women I go out with will ask me how many relationships I have had and when I give the a low number for my age, and they ask why, I just told them that women are just more interested in sex in my experience than dating. But does it sound bad if a person says that too a date?


Yes.



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18 Jul 2022, 11:40 am

I see what you mean. But it probably sounds worse to say that women before were not interested in a relationship without mentioning they still liked the sex, because if you mention that, the that still says at least you were doing something right still?



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18 Jul 2022, 3:36 pm

babybird wrote:
I can only speak for my self but I've never had trouble with getting one night stands. The problem for me was always getting rid of my shag the day after.

I used to always think it was easier to just have casual sex and stay away from long term relationships. I mean you can love a person for just one night and that's perfect and just leave it that way. That always seemed more attractive to me.



Well if your a woman it’s easier to get a random f**k.



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18 Jul 2022, 3:37 pm

Well it was for me. :D


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18 Jul 2022, 3:51 pm

 ! Cornflake wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Well if your a woman it’s easier to get a random f**k.


How many more times must it be stated that these generalised, denigrating and misogynistic "who has it better" conversations are not welcome on WP?

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