Joined: 4 Feb 2014 Gender: Male Posts: 87,510 Location: Queens, NYC
14 Jul 2022, 9:53 pm
I got my license at 37 because I wasn’t ready before that. I really wanted to get my license much earlier. Still, not having a license didn’t really affect my “prospects.”
I first owned a car at age 51. I needed a car to work in Nassau County, which is immediately east of Queens County. I also live in a part of Queens where cars are almost essential.
Joined: 3 Nov 2015 Age: 39 Posts: 5,590 Location: canada
16 Jul 2022, 2:05 pm
Well as far as more being able to get one night stands more than relationships and dating experiences, sometimes women I go out with will ask me how many relationships I have had and when I give the a low number for my age, and they ask why, I just told them that women are just more interested in sex in my experience than dating. But does it sound bad if a person says that too a date?
Joined: 11 Nov 2011 Gender: Female Posts: 64,108 Location: UK
16 Jul 2022, 2:12 pm
I can only speak for my self but I've never had trouble with getting one night stands. The problem for me was always getting rid of my shag the day after.
I used to always think it was easier to just have casual sex and stay away from long term relationships. I mean you can love a person for just one night and that's perfect and just leave it that way. That always seemed more attractive to me.
Joined: 3 Nov 2015 Age: 39 Posts: 5,590 Location: canada
18 Jul 2022, 12:45 am
Why would the person be clingy towards you the day after? Can this be a good thing, since it means that getting more than sex may not be as challenging for you therefore?
Joined: 14 Oct 2021 Age: 64 Gender: Male Posts: 1,085 Location: Buffalo, NY
18 Jul 2022, 6:49 am
ironpony wrote:
Well as far as more being able to get one night stands more than relationships and dating experiences, sometimes women I go out with will ask me how many relationships I have had and when I give the a low number for my age, and they ask why, I just told them that women are just more interested in sex in my experience than dating. But does it sound bad if a person says that too a date?
Joined: 3 Nov 2015 Age: 39 Posts: 5,590 Location: canada
18 Jul 2022, 11:40 am
I see what you mean. But it probably sounds worse to say that women before were not interested in a relationship without mentioning they still liked the sex, because if you mention that, the that still says at least you were doing something right still?
Joined: 24 Oct 2008 Age: 34 Gender: Male Posts: 8,020 Location: Near London United Kingdom
18 Jul 2022, 3:36 pm
babybird wrote:
I can only speak for my self but I've never had trouble with getting one night stands. The problem for me was always getting rid of my shag the day after.
I used to always think it was easier to just have casual sex and stay away from long term relationships. I mean you can love a person for just one night and that's perfect and just leave it that way. That always seemed more attractive to me.
Well if your a woman it’s easier to get a random f**k.