greenblue wrote:
I remember I read this here on WP, don't remember where exactly, that how beautiful we see someone it depends on how we like that person, and I agree.
It happened to me a few times, that I fall in love (or have a crush to be more precise) with a girl who is nice and a lovely person, and I get attracted to her physically, but I believe her personality is the most influencial thing for me to even see her as the most beautiful girl for me, well at least that way have been for me, to a certain degree I suppose.
Ragtime wrote:
Well, ya. When I see a girl with a beautiful body, that's all I know: her body is beautiful. So what? It tells me nothing of if she herself is a beautiful person. So I'm really not impressed enough by physicality to interact with someone on that basis.
I can very well relate to that. What good are looks if the two don't ever really fiz and get along? My ex wife was quite a looker -but look where that all ended up
OTOH I've been on an outing with a girl who is nothing dazzling by any means physically but I noticed in her a lot of things I like to see if I was in a steady relationship with her besides there being lots of common interest. If that trend keeps up, this girl and I could become an item pretty soon
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