What Qualities Do You Look For In A Partner?

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What Qualities Do You Look For In A Partner?

The qualities I found in my wife:

• Interested in me as a person, and not as a possessor of wealth and property.

• At least as intelligent and educated as I am.

• Kindness, compassion, and understanding.

• Good-looking in a healthy sort of way.

@Fnord

Where did you meet your wife?

Kind

A good listener

Laidback

Intelligent and well-read

Similar worldview and politics

Likes soup

Church.

1. Extremely high sex drive

2. Loves to travel

3. Adventurous

4. Not a political extremist (I am a centrist, but will consider anything from a Bush-McCain-Romney Republican to Biden-Kennedy-FDR Democrat. Basically, no MAGAs or far-leftists)

5. No religious extremists (could interfere with item #1)

6. Independent and goal-oriented, loyal, affectionate

Funny
Intelligent
Patient
Compassionate
Athletic (optional)

1.If we agree on religion and politics
2.If we agree on kids
3.If we agree on money
4.If we agree on in-laws.
5.If we both want to marry each other

If you are looking for an NT partner then tolerance, compassion and flexibility are important traits.

Good hands

Assertive
Uses direct language with me
Killer sarcasm

Integrity of ethics
Likes to debate with me
Sticks up for people

Right-brained or Neurodiverse
Humble

Sensory Friendly
Home-Body
Loves all animals
Loves loud music and concerts
Long hair is a plus

Likes a lot of time alone
Laughs, farts, and curses
Makes me a little nervous

Bonus points if he is Dave Grohl





Doesn't:

Stink or wear cologne
Send flowers
Talk much
Expect to woo me with money
Expect to take my money
Follow the mainstream narrative
Want to get married
Mansplain

Still waiting everlong for Dave, who ticks all the boxes. ^

Anyone with contacts please hit me up.



Foo Fighters' Dave Grohl: The nicest guy in rock and roll | 60 Minutes Australia

A sweetlet to live in my pod with me that I can share my candy with.

I like older, fat men. Yes, it's true. I just find it attractive. My boyfriend is 20+ years older than me and he's fat and balding. He also has a cute face, which attracted me first.
I like shy men too. My boyfriend was shy when I first knew him, and his self-esteem isn't that high. I'm good at making people with low self-esteem feel better about themselves (even though I have low self-esteem myself).

I also like a man who has been treated poorly by women in the past, like my boyfriend was, because they tend to appreciate your honesty and your love, and if you're the sort of person he can trust, it makes both of you feel good. I wouldn't want to be like the mean women that treated him badly, so I'd never cheat on him or walk away from the relationship. I want to be there for him, forever (meaning for the rest of his life). Sometimes when he feels happy and loved, I feel happy too, for making a person I love feel happy.

My love for my boyfriend has become unconditional, meaning we have become soulmates and no matter how anxious or angry I get when he's drunk, I still couldn't imagine life without him.

MUST have a bunch of obvious red flags that I Should turn and run away from but for some illogical reason I'm still drawn towards them like a moth to a flame.

Well, according to my current fwb crush, anyways.

- Honest and genuine
- Considerate and thoughtful
- Intellectually curious
- Interested in discussing ideas
- Compatible values and life goals
- Good sense of humour
- Enjoys spending quality time together
- Pretty hair

Just someone who shares special interests and that's about it.