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19 Feb 2022, 2:28 am

So I striked up a conversation with a girl in public and then gave her my number. After a few days of waiting I gave up. but I got a call six days later? She only called for four minutes. Not the most interesting conversation on
My part. I don’t understand what motivates her if she waits 6 days to call and then only talks for 4 minutes when she calls

I’ve started doing improv acting which has conditioned me to think people will react well when I take a risk and to go off the beaten path in conversations (I think)



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19 Feb 2022, 2:46 am

That's a great idea to learn improv acting and it sounds like it worked!

When I met my partner he gave me his number and I took almost a week to text him.

Are you interested in talking to her again?


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19 Feb 2022, 2:51 am

Yeah I definitely want to see her again



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19 Feb 2022, 2:53 am

enz wrote:
Yeah I definitely want to see her again


Could you text her something funny?

She's possibly thinking you aren't interested, if you don't make the next contact.


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19 Feb 2022, 2:58 am

I will make the next contact, maybe in 5 days :P

Can’t think of anything funny though :/



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19 Feb 2022, 3:16 am

enz wrote:
I will make the next contact, maybe in 5 days :P

Can’t think of anything funny though :/


Dude! you know the rules...girls can take their time but guys can't,

Text her later in the evening. She might have other dudes interested in her too,



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19 Feb 2022, 3:33 am

cyberdad wrote:
enz wrote:
I will make the next contact, maybe in 5 days :P

Can’t think of anything funny though :/


Dude! you know the rules...girls can take their time but guys can't,

Text her later in the evening. She might have other dudes interested in her too,



Haven’t heard that rule. Thought you matched them



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19 Feb 2022, 4:00 am

enz wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
enz wrote:
I will make the next contact, maybe in 5 days :P

Can’t think of anything funny though :/


Dude! you know the rules...girls can take their time but guys can't,

Text her later in the evening. She might have other dudes interested in her too,



Haven’t heard that rule. Thought you matched them


girls > boys in popularity

I dumped this girl I dated once who didn't call me for 2 weeks. Afterward she kept calling me and other people asking why I don't return her calls.

They have actual calendars with their timed booked with friends.



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19 Feb 2022, 4:07 am

When I got the future Mrs Trueno’s number it took me a week to call. I was too scared.

People are what they are.


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19 Feb 2022, 4:56 am

fair enough! I suppose guys don't want to look desperate either



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19 Feb 2022, 6:12 am

I was very desperate… but I was even more scared.


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20 Feb 2022, 12:39 am

We hung out today it went well



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20 Feb 2022, 1:04 am

Well, hope there's a happy ending to this story :D



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20 Feb 2022, 1:05 am

:wtg:


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20 Feb 2022, 1:08 am

enz wrote:
We hung out today it went well


YAY!!

I'm so happy for you!!


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11 Apr 2022, 10:38 pm

forgot about this. Not interested, I got the impression she cares more about guys making money and I'm more into doing stuff because I'm passionate about it.

Making money is a close second for me in my life