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21 Dec 2022, 5:44 pm

Nades wrote:

It's usually wise to make an effort to sexualise ASAP if that's ever the case.



Sure. Just use some Virgin-Ridding spray to disinfect all the innocents.

It's for the good of mankind.

Then they can act like virgins again to make everyone happy.


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22 Dec 2022, 3:21 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Nades wrote:

It's usually wise to make an effort to sexualise ASAP if that's ever the case.



Sure. Just use some Virgin-Ridding spray to disinfect all the innocents.

It's for the good of mankind.

Then they can act like virgins again to make everyone happy.



Being seen as too "innocent" has caused me an immense amount of harm throughout my dating life. People end up on the receiving end of years of ridicule, mocking and rejection for being seen as too innocent for their age. I imagine it applies to women as well.

Being perceived as being at either extremes of the sexuality spectrum, be it overly innocent or someone who has a reputation for sleeping around seems to attract negative attention.



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22 Dec 2022, 3:35 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I really, honestly, don't think there's anything wrong with being a virgin-----both male and female.

People always thought, in my life, that I was less "experienced" than what actually was true at the time.


But haven't you said time and time again on WP that it caused you problems with dating?



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22 Dec 2022, 5:44 am

No…never said that.

I had problems with dating in high school because I was socially awkward, and looked very young.



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22 Dec 2022, 6:02 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
No…never said that.

I had problems with dating in high school because I was socially awkward, and looked very young.


I could have sworn you said you prefer having relationship with ND people because NT's generally written you off only a few days ago.



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22 Dec 2022, 6:53 am

Nope. That was somebody else.

I’ve only had relationships with cuckoo NTs :)

And I’m almost 62. When I was in high school, there was no concept of Aspergers or HFA.