Why do some people dislike inter racial dating?

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07 Dec 2022, 12:45 am

Jamesy wrote:
Ok that's interesting. There's a stereotype that blonde women always go for black men.


In porn, yes. In the real world about 17% of black men actually date outside of their race but that includes Latino, Asian (south and east) and middle eastern. The rest who date caucasians maybe a small fraction go with blondes and even smaller number end up with attractive blondes.

In a country like the UK where the caucasian female population is 24.1 million and the black population male 800,000 if you take 17% of 800,000 = 80,000 men looking for non-black women.

Even If only 2% of white women are interested in dating outside then that's still = 482,000 women

That's pretty good odds that a black man can find a white woman. That's 1 black man for every 6 white women open to dating them.



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07 Dec 2022, 12:47 am

My longest-term partner was Latino.
We were together for years as best friends and dating.
We still own a house together.



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07 Dec 2022, 12:51 am

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My longest-term partner was Latino.
We were together for years as best friends and dating.
We still own a house together.


You have an incredibly interesting dating history Isabella!



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07 Dec 2022, 1:17 am

I've only dated four men.
The first three were gay.
He was #3.



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07 Dec 2022, 2:01 am

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I've only dated four men.
The first three were gay.
He was #3.

Do you ever wonder how many times you've rolled the dice on AIDS?


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07 Dec 2022, 2:05 am

WTF???? ^

That's rather harsh and presumptuous.

I didn't even sleep with #2 or #3.
The first guy was the guy I married. We likely hooked up five times ever.

I didn't know any of them were gay when I was dating them, either.
It's not like I was rolling any dice knowingly.

For the record yes I was AIDS tested but that was from SA, unrelated to those men.



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07 Dec 2022, 2:09 am

I meant after the fact, after you found out. I asked if you ever wondered that.

Was that back in the 80s?


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07 Dec 2022, 2:13 am

I couldn't wonder how many times, if there weren't any "times" with two of them.

I met my husband in the 80s but we didn't get married until the 90s.
I was finished with #3 by 2002.
I didn't date again until 2019.



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07 Dec 2022, 2:17 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
I was finished with #3 by 2002.

I'm intimidated by your usage of the verb. :? :lol:


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07 Dec 2022, 2:25 am

I know it's a bizarre history but hell, I had no one to give me advice.
I wasted almost 20 years of my life on the first three combined.

I'm still friends with #3 despite a major falling out for many years.
I just talked to him a few hours ago.
I never lived with him but he put my name on the deed to his house.
It's a complicated relationship.



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07 Dec 2022, 6:55 am

When my wife comments on the attractiveness of various male celebrities she doesn't show much preference one way or the other. Strangely, she thinks Aaron Judge (biracial American baseball player) has a weird face, which I don't think is a popular opinion.


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07 Dec 2022, 7:08 am

Judge, to me, looks sort of nerdy….but he did hit 62 homers this past season.



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07 Dec 2022, 7:54 am

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Judge, to me, looks sort of nerdy….but he did hit 62 homers this past season.

You live in Queens. Are you a Mets fan?


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07 Dec 2022, 8:11 am

I noticed that some women don't like sexual activity with black men.

I also noticed myself that black men are a little more boisterous when it comes to sex but nothing that's a clear and distinct difference.



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07 Dec 2022, 9:12 am

Maybe it’s because black men on average have bigger…… :)



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07 Dec 2022, 9:39 am

I don't think it's true that, on average, black men are "bigger."

Trust me.....there are plenty of non-black men who have "big ones."

I'm both a Mets and a Yankee fan, though lean more towards the Yankees.