kraftiekortie wrote:
Of course I “get it!”
Sorry this happened….but no reason to get testy.
Your beard can grow again once you’ve trimmed it. How much did they want you to trim it?
I can’t help it. I understand “principles”—but if the loss of this opportunity would lead to you feeling hopeless, why not bend a bit when it comes to the beard? It’ll grow back.
Maybe I don’t understand. What does the beard symbolize for you?
It’s not “selling out” if you trim the beard, I don’t believe.
I wish you could get in a trade union or something like that.
They wanted me to trim it short. I got testy because I don't want to talk about trimming or shaving it. This predicament is still very fresh and I'm really not in the mood to deal with more unsolicited suggestions about what I should do with my hair. I don't know why it's any more acceptable to do with facial hair than it is with head hair.
It's not just about principles. It's about how I feel most comfortable and most myself. If I'm planning on doing dealing for the foreseeable future, when am I growing my beard back? It probably wouldn't be able to happen, and I'm not ok with that. The decision I made should show you what I value more. There was no good outcome to be had here with the choice I was forced to make. Like I said before, I would have rejected the offer had I known I'd be put in this situation.