magz wrote:
The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
magz wrote:
Is there any situation in your life where you can enjoy your time with other people?
Really just family. Not sure if you'd count trivia nights I help coordinate or not.
Do you enjoy them?
Yes, when I'm not overwhelmed with depression.
magz wrote:
The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
In any case, no amount of platonic interactions are going to alleviate my suffering regarding the trouble I'm having romantically.
If you believe so, you put horrible expectations on your hypothetical girlfriend.
It's a different need, the same way that no amount of eating will quench my thirst.
I'm not depressed because I don't have friends, or because I'm not having platonic interactions. What I'm depressed about is all very specifically the romantic and dating side of my life, and my present and historic lack of success in that arena.
Just having a partner whom I feel accepted by and can be intimate with would pretty much alleviate my depression. That's all I'm asking for.
Specifically, what horrible expectations do you think I'm putting on a hypothetical partner?