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28 Jan 2023, 4:04 am

^ You are projecting too much BS, Leaf, no guy here ever claimed wanting blonde models or refusing nerdy women.

Are you on shrooms?

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28 Jan 2023, 4:14 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

^ You are projecting too much BS, Leaf, no guy here ever claimed wanting blonde models or refusing nerdy women.

Not directly, but I have read the whole thread and comments and seems in no uncertain terms it comes down to a lot of guys just won't accept any women in their league rather than threre being an entire lack of datable women. My analysis may not be eintirely correct but I think idk autistic people may not get out as much so they create romanticzed versions of eveything and getting too deep into it they cannot accept reality when it doesn't live up to that.

Because I will maintain that most people look average and end up in relationships with other average looking people, and like if autistics struggle with being popular of course we aren't going to get the chads and Staceys as girlfrends and boyfriends...but there are still pleanty of quality people out there that don't fit into that.

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28 Jan 2023, 4:24 am

Psychedelic mushrooms confirmed.

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28 Jan 2023, 4:28 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:

I'm not shaming anyone and I hope it doesn't come across that way.
I'm just saying what I like.
Don't forget I'm older than you guys.
Maybe it's a generational thing.
I'm still into the type of men I was into 30 years ago.
Back then most men who went to the gym or had gym bods were gay.
That's no slight on gay men (or gym men), but I found more grungey guys hot.

I thought you had two long term relationships with gay men though.

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28 Jan 2023, 4:33 am

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Psychedelic mushrooms confirmed.

well perhaps you ought to try them, they can be enlightening. But don't take my advice because I will always advise to try shrooms at least once especiallyy since my state decriminalized them, some people may think that is being a bad influence. But you can never really experience 9 in the afternoon unless you've tripped shrooms so there is that.

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28 Jan 2023, 4:37 am

Sweetleaf wrote:

Can you cite a quote or quotes from this thread to substantiate your assertion?

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28 Jan 2023, 4:43 am

Nades wrote:

IsabellaLinton wrote:

I thought you had two long term relationships with gay men though.

Good memory!
Yes I did.
I didn't know any of them were gay when we met.
None of them had gym bodies or went to the gym.
First one - kinda flabby and average.
Second - more slim but not muscular (the homeless guy)
The third one was a big strong tough guy with a beer belly.
He looked like a biker but was a South American gaucho.
Never set foot in a gym.

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28 Jan 2023, 5:11 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

What is “grungey”, show us examples.

I don't mean grunge in regard to the 1990s music scene, but that's good too.
I just mean men who aren't perfectly manicured, who look like they'll be chill.

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28 Jan 2023, 5:20 am

There’s absolutely nothing in common between these guys. :lol:

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28 Jan 2023, 5:22 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

What is “grungey”, show us examples.

I don't mean grunge in regard to the 1990s music scene, but that's good too.
I just mean men who aren't perfectly manicured, who look like they'll be chill.

It's a familiar look but I can't really figure out what the style would be called exactly.

I have a preference for slimmer women. I suppose my standards are highish but I work out. I'm not massive but better looking than average people my age.

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28 Jan 2023, 5:27 am

Sweetleaf hit it on the head.

Most people are average, and get with average people. None of my lovers were model types—except one who rejected me because I didn’t smoke pot, not because I was average-looking. She was a Hot Tamale who wore no makeup, and wore torn-up jeans. She was a projects girl who was also a music prodigy.

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28 Jan 2023, 5:30 am

Isabella digs rugged, regular men, I feel.

Men who are good around the house, and are strong emotionally.

Who don’t take crap from people, yet treat her with respect.

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28 Jan 2023, 5:37 am

kraftiekortie wrote:

She hit nothing, she is spouting false claims claiming that guys here want models only and reject average women. This simply a lie. Guys here aren’t struggling because of being too picky in looks, that’s not the case.

I am still waiting her to quote some posts.

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28 Jan 2023, 5:41 am

I agree that most guys here wouldn’t just go for blondes….but they sometimes place too much value on looks over substance, and don’t see what’s real…that most couples aren’t “power couples.”

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28 Jan 2023, 5:43 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

Mhm.

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28 Jan 2023, 5:46 am

kraftiekortie wrote:

Isabella digs rugged, regular men, I feel.

Men who are good around the house, and are strong emotionally.

Who don’t take crap from people, yet treat her with respect.

Does that also include not taking crap from her? :wink:

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