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08 Feb 2023, 7:11 pm

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I sleep with all my male friends.
It makes life a lot easier.

I really need to get to know someone before I sleep with them, it's uncomfortable for me if I don't know them well.

I can’t do one night stands for this reason.

Yeah, been there, never again.

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08 Feb 2023, 7:11 pm

I've always had two nightstands.

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08 Feb 2023, 7:12 pm

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Friendzoning is ok so long as the PERSON is made to explicitly understand friendship is all THEY are going to get

Fixed it for ya!

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08 Feb 2023, 7:14 pm

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I've always had two nightstands.

As with partners during a sexual escapade, two are better than one.

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08 Feb 2023, 7:15 pm

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The power of hormones when you are in your 20s is a massive driver when the prospect of sex is dangled in front of you. Males in the 20s don't have particularly well developed executive decision control and it doesn't take much to get us hooked into a relationship that is destined to go nowhere.

I'm a female but I was sexually driven by hormones and I'd get obsessed with men and keep flirting with them. I understood and knew all the signs that they didn't want a relationship, but because I was obsessed, I consciously ignored those signs and carried on flirting, which they did like.
I feel lucky being a woman because if we get overly obsessed with a man and hang around them a lot and want their attention, it may be annoying for the man but it isn't seen as creepy.
When I was 19 I had a sexual crush on my bus driver, and I'd wait for him to draw up in his bus at a particular time every day in the bus station just so I can chat (and flirt) with him while he was on his 10-minute break. The regular passengers used to joke and say "your wife is waiting!" I loved it when they said that.
But if I was a man pestering a woman the same way, some might see it as "pervert", and might even call the police, even if the woman didn't mind. But people would still likely be concerned, even if the man was younger.

Life sucks for men when it comes to finding a date.

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08 Feb 2023, 7:15 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:

I've always had two nightstands.

So you what, take twice as long as a female praying mantis?

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08 Feb 2023, 7:17 pm

lol no, I've only had four boyfriends and two of them wouldn't even have sex.
Years of them making excuses.
THAT was mindfuckkkery.

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08 Feb 2023, 7:21 pm

I came close to having sex (mentioned this in another thread) but was afraid to go ALL the way after passionately kissing and making out

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08 Feb 2023, 7:22 pm

Mikurotoro92 wrote:

I came close to having sex (mentioned this in another thread) but was afraid to go ALL the way after passionately kissing and making out

If you were afraid to in that moment, it wasn’t the right time. Don’t do it unless you really want to.

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08 Feb 2023, 7:27 pm

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I came close to having sex (mentioned this in another thread) but was afraid to go ALL the way after passionately kissing and making out

If you were afraid to in that moment, it wasn’t the right time. Don’t do it unless you really want to.

I think only predators aren't afraid. I think that is so by definition.

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08 Feb 2023, 7:29 pm

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Mikurotoro92 wrote:

I came close to having sex (mentioned this in another thread) but was afraid to go ALL the way after passionately kissing and making out

If you were afraid to in that moment, it wasn’t the right time. Don’t do it unless you really want to.

I think only predators aren't afraid. I think that is so by definition.

I think people are often nervous but want to have sex to the point that the nervousness doesn’t matter.

Being nervous and being afraid are different things. If someone wants to stop, they should stop.

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08 Feb 2023, 7:39 pm

He won’t win the suit.

Sorry the guy feels hurt…..but it’s part of life. I’ve been friendzoned many times. I’ve been hurt. But I moved on.

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08 Feb 2023, 7:45 pm

It’s probably happened to everyone.

That would be a lot of lawsuits if everyone tried to sue.

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08 Feb 2023, 7:49 pm

Well considering we can't sue spouses for "friendzoning" or even "hate-zoning" us after divorce, I doubt he has a leg to stand on. Marriage is a financial contract but even that doesn't provide for emotional damages.

I wish kids could sue parents for it if they bugger off and non-child-zone them.

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08 Feb 2023, 8:57 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:

There's only one friend in my life I'd shag and I think they know it but it's not an option anyway.
There's no mindfuckkery as far as I know.

Yes the girl I was referring to in my bio was the same. In her case she was popular because of her attractiveness (she was very self-aware of her demand) and she had f***buddies. I think in my mind, even if deep down there was unlikely to be a long term relationship (although my 20 something brain said "do it" anyway) I thought at least she would have sex with me at some point. She must have thought I was patient. In reality it was mindfuckkery. Maybe she didn't care.

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08 Feb 2023, 9:00 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:

So men in their 20s need to accept this and factor it into their relationships to make sure no one gets hurt.
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I would argue many men are ill-equipped to deal with this and are too shy to ask anyone for help.

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