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The power of hormones when you are in your 20s is a massive driver when the prospect of sex is dangled in front of you. Males in the 20s don't have particularly well developed executive decision control and it doesn't take much to get us hooked into a relationship that is destined to go nowhere.
I'm a female but I was sexually driven by hormones and I'd get obsessed with men and keep flirting with them. I understood and knew all the signs that they didn't want a relationship, but because I was obsessed, I consciously ignored those signs and carried on flirting, which they did like.
I feel lucky being a woman because if we get overly obsessed with a man and hang around them a lot and want their attention, it may be annoying for the man but it isn't seen as creepy.
When I was 19 I had a sexual crush on my bus driver, and I'd wait for him to draw up in his bus at a particular time every day in the bus station just so I can chat (and flirt) with him while he was on his 10-minute break. The regular passengers used to joke and say "your wife is waiting!" I loved it when they said that.
But if I was a man pestering a woman the same way, some might see it as "pervert", and might even call the police, even if the woman didn't mind. But people would still likely be concerned, even if the man was younger.
Life sucks for men when it comes to finding a date.
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Female