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Would you engage in casual sex or have done so?
Male and I have 43%  43%  [ 20 ]
Male and I haven't but would 9%  9%  [ 4 ]
Male and I wouldn't 9%  9%  [ 4 ]
Female and I have 9%  9%  [ 4 ]
Female and I haven't but would 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Female and I wouldn't 22%  22%  [ 10 ]
I can't identify with either gender so wasn't able to pick one of the first six options 9%  9%  [ 4 ]
Total votes : 46

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09 Feb 2024, 7:20 am

Sex in this case means any blatantly sexual act but not necessarily sexual intercourse. Casual implies a lack of emotional attachment beyond friendship, and could be while in a serious relationship (cheating) or single.

Feel free to interpret the gender part of the options however you want. I've added a seventh question for those unable to identify with a gender so those folks can make their presence known.

In comments you might want to address whether you think autism influences your attitude.

EDIT by "casual" I mean CONSENSUAL.


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09 Feb 2024, 8:02 am

Male and I have. Everybody should.


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09 Feb 2024, 8:18 am

Tim_Tex wrote:
Everybody should.
Why should they? What if they have no desire to?

I would not want to have casual sex because I need to have romantic feelings or be in love with someone in order to want to sleep with them. I’d much rather masturbate than have casual sex. I don’t think there’s anything morally wrong with it as long as there’s no cheating involved, and it’s consensual. It’s just not for me.

I don’t think autism influences my standpoint since, just like the other options, many people who aren’t autistic have a similar preference. It’s more about individual variation.


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09 Feb 2024, 8:42 am

Tim_Tex wrote:
Male and I have. Everybody should.

I really wish you hadn't said this.


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09 Feb 2024, 10:23 am

I never did. I haven't been majorly interested in having sex outside of a serious romantic relationship. However if I woulda had the right opportunity to when I was single, I probably would have due to loneliness &/or curiosity reasons.


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09 Feb 2024, 10:29 am

Female and I think I have - maybe - but I wouldn't do it again.

I say "maybe" because it was french kissing rather than a blatant sex act.
Also I did have a crush on him even though I was with someone else.


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09 Feb 2024, 12:42 pm

It doesn't seem to matter what I want on this issue. Sex is a luxury in a sexually repressive society, especially for people like me who don't value their attractiveness.


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09 Feb 2024, 12:56 pm

I've been around the block a few times. Picked up plenty of guys and gals at bars, house parties, raves, concerts, conventions... Those years are long behind me, but boy howdy have I had some good times.



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09 Feb 2024, 1:36 pm

belijojo wrote:
It doesn't seem to matter what I want on this issue. Sex is a luxury in a sexually repressive society, especially for people like me who don't value their attractiveness.


What does "people like me who don't value their attractiveness" mean?



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09 Feb 2024, 1:44 pm

rse92 wrote:
belijojo wrote:
It doesn't seem to matter what I want on this issue. Sex is a luxury in a sexually repressive society, especially for people like me who don't value their attractiveness.


What does "people like me who don't value their attractiveness" mean?

No fitness, no makeup, no humor, no socializing, no Matching Clothes, no singing, basically like this.Not actively seeking sex.
edit:Just trying to make money first,There are a lot of people like me here. but its obviously off topic.


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09 Feb 2024, 3:39 pm

You are twenty. It is too early give up on life.



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09 Feb 2024, 4:03 pm

I wouldn't. i think that if you're burning with passion for someone, you should marry them.


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09 Feb 2024, 5:46 pm

No because of STDs and pregnancy

Even now I still don't feel comfortable being naked in front of a man so I will probably never have true sex for that reason!

The farthest I am willing to go is foreplay

Like he can press me up against the wall kissing me passionately and carry me into the bedroom

That is what happened with Robbie


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09 Feb 2024, 5:46 pm

Mikurotoro92 wrote:
No because of STDs and pregnancy

Even now I still don't feel comfortable being naked in front of a man so I will probably never have true sex for that reason!

The farthest I am willing to go is foreplay

Like he can press me up against the wall kissing me passionately and carry me into the bedroom

That is what happened with Robbie


You don't have to take all of your clothes off or be naked to have sex.



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09 Feb 2024, 5:52 pm

Never did...but then I had principles and morals :lol:



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09 Feb 2024, 5:58 pm

blitzkrieg wrote:
Mikurotoro92 wrote:
No because of STDs and pregnancy

Even now I still don't feel comfortable being naked in front of a man so I will probably never have true sex for that reason!

The farthest I am willing to go is foreplay

Like he can press me up against the wall kissing me passionately and carry me into the bedroom

That is what happened with Robbie


You don't have to take all of your clothes off or be naked to have sex.


Only if you want to get pregnant right?

So he could put his dick in your vagina which would be impossible without getting naked!


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