I Broke Up With My Boyfriend

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Kitty4670
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06 May 2024, 12:39 pm

We broke up over a stupid thing, password sharing.



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06 May 2024, 12:50 pm

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Did he want you to give him your password to something?


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06 May 2024, 12:51 pm

Password sharing isn't a stupid reason imo


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06 May 2024, 1:18 pm

Considering you haven't met the guy in person and he is presumably asking for your password(s)?

That seems like a major red flag.



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06 May 2024, 3:18 pm

TwilightPrincess wrote:
{{{hugs}}}

Did he want you to give him your password to something?


Yes,I told him he lives in a different country, it may not work, he should have believe me, but instead he told me that I don’t trust him.



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06 May 2024, 3:26 pm

It sounds like he was trying to manipulate you into feeling guilty. You shouldn’t give your passwords to anyone. You did the right thing. I’m sorry that you had to deal with that.


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06 May 2024, 3:40 pm

TwilightPrincess wrote:
It sounds like he was trying to manipulate you into feeling guilty. You shouldn’t give your passwords to anyone. You did the right thing. I’m sorry that you had to deal with that.




Why didn’t he believe me? A man should believe his girlfriend. Giving him my password probably won’t work, I’m in California & he lives in France.



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06 May 2024, 3:42 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
TwilightPrincess wrote:
It sounds like he was trying to manipulate you into feeling guilty. You shouldn’t give your passwords to anyone. You did the right thing. I’m sorry that you had to deal with that.

Why didn’t he believe me? A man should believe his girlfriend. Giving him my password probably won’t work, I’m in California & he lives in France.

I don’t think he was being honest with you. He probably does believe you. He might be trying to make you feel guilty so you’ll give him your password. What is the password for?


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06 May 2024, 4:25 pm

TwilightPrincess wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
TwilightPrincess wrote:
It sounds like he was trying to manipulate you into feeling guilty. You shouldn’t give your passwords to anyone. You did the right thing. I’m sorry that you had to deal with that.

Why didn’t he believe me? A man should believe his girlfriend. Giving him my password probably won’t work, I’m in California & he lives in France.

I don’t think he was being honest with you. He probably does believe you. He might be trying to make you feel guilty so you’ll give him your password. What is the password for?


To check on something, I said I don’t understand, he wanted my Apple ID& password.



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06 May 2024, 5:00 pm

Yeah he's trying to scam you sweetheart. You're well shot of him


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06 May 2024, 5:08 pm

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Yeah he's trying to scam you sweetheart. You're well shot of him


My thoughts exactly.

Did he ask for your email password, also, Kitty? If so it might have even been the case that he was trying to get money out of you. It happens online and scammers like to target vulnerable people.



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06 May 2024, 5:14 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
TwilightPrincess wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
TwilightPrincess wrote:
It sounds like he was trying to manipulate you into feeling guilty. You shouldn’t give your passwords to anyone. You did the right thing. I’m sorry that you had to deal with that.

Why didn’t he believe me? A man should believe his girlfriend. Giving him my password probably won’t work, I’m in California & he lives in France.

I don’t think he was being honest with you. He probably does believe you. He might be trying to make you feel guilty so you’ll give him your password. What is the password for?


To check on something, I said I don’t understand, he wanted my Apple ID& password.



Was it something you were asking for help with?
Maybe we can help you (without needing your password).

I'm very sorry this happened but I'm proud of you for not giving your password.
You did the right thing, Kitty.

It wouldn't matter if he was in France or not.
He could still hurt you with access to your password(s).


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06 May 2024, 5:16 pm

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Yeah he's trying to scam you sweetheart. You're well shot of him



No he wasn’t. I knew him for years.



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06 May 2024, 5:26 pm

Ok

That's good to know at least


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06 May 2024, 6:20 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
babybird wrote:
Yeah he's trying to scam you sweetheart. You're well shot of him



No he wasn’t. I knew him for years.

I think you've said that you have never met him. Have you known him only online but for many years? That could still be a red flag that he is not trustworthy.

Regardless, I am sorry and you must be feeling sad. Hugs.



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07 May 2024, 7:57 am

Sending hugs Kitty.


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