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Mikurotoro92
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25 Dec 2024, 9:28 pm

The catalyst for getting married and having children?

Think about it:

Isn't Christmas a time for family and friends?

Would the holiday feel different with your own family vs. your sibling?

What do you guys think?



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25 Dec 2024, 9:32 pm

No, the holidays should not be a catalyst for getting married and having children.

Relationships are about you and the other person, not external events. Spending the holidays in a bad relationship is worse than spending them alone.

People should wait until they’re ready.


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