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Adam82
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02 Feb 2012, 6:33 am

artrat wrote:

I am 27 and still a virgin.
This thread makes me feel much better about myself.
It lets me know that I am not alone.

Yeah. It made me feel slightly better about myself. I am 29 and a half, and still virgin. I thought it was just me. I do hope to have a girlfriend/wife one day, and I wonder when it will happen for me. No luck yet. Still, shouldn't dwell on it.

gtw1983
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02 Feb 2012, 12:52 pm

28 year old virgin here.

I wanna lose it like most people do.Just because i'm nearly 30 and still untouched doesn't mean the desire isn't there like anyone else.But the social stigma that goes along with the act makes the issue very uncomfortable to me.I would prefer to lose mine to someone I genuinely care for.Just going out and having sex with random people for the heck of it seems like a foreign concept to me.

Strange as it may sound the fact that so many modern people use sex as a mere pleasure tool and not the deep bonding experience i feel it's meant to be saddens me.

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02 Feb 2012, 11:32 pm

was the 21 year old 3 days ago, not anymore!

sorry but I'm so proud of myself, i had to.

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03 Feb 2012, 2:34 am

gtw1983 wrote:

That's how I feel too. I don't want to have sex with a person unless I have a deep emotional connection with them.

Sex seems to be so impersonal for some people and I don't want that at all.

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Aesthete
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08 Feb 2012, 8:22 pm

Aesthete wrote:

I'm 21 and a virgin.

Funny... not long after I posted this.

No longer a virgin as of January 28, 2012.

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08 Feb 2012, 9:49 pm

In a few months I shall become the 72-year-old virgin but unfortunately for me, I'm not a Muslim.

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09 Feb 2012, 11:58 am

I am the 21 year old virgin... now I feel strangely worse about saying that I am.
Also... Tom5, how have you aged 20 years in 4 days? You said in another thread that you were 52 and here you said 72... you can see why I am confused by this, right?

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11 Feb 2012, 6:26 pm

artrat wrote:

gtw1983 wrote:

That's how I feel too. I don't want to have sex with a person unless I have a deep emotional connection with them.

Sex seems to be so impersonal for some people and I don't want that at all.

Your emotions are my emotions

I somehow knew this place would be the right planet for me, although it might be the wrong one for others :wink:

gtw1983
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11 Feb 2012, 6:42 pm

artrat wrote:

gtw1983 wrote:

That's how I feel too. I don't want to have sex with a person unless I have a deep emotional connection with them.

Sex seems to be so impersonal for some people and I don't want that at all.

And that brings home the concept of 'wrong planet',because when it comes to social/romantic aspects of life I really do feel like an alien.Or maybe it's not so much i'm on a foreign planet as I feel I was born in the wrong decade/century for a traditional romantic at heart like myself.

OICU812
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11 Feb 2012, 10:35 pm

Lost at 20, I regret it a bit because it wasn't what I really wanted but thats life.

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11 Feb 2012, 11:35 pm

33 year old German-American man, profoundly deaf, had 1 date that didn't go well 14 years ago (she's a deaf NT, religious, and was disinterested; she married a decent NT man and had 3 kids with him).

I'm sure there were pretty young hearing NT women interested in me, but they expect men to make the first move. I don't play the "game." I didn't understand why one (very attractive) young server woman, taking the order, stood by the table and looked at me seductively and showed me the colored tattoo on her chest by the slightly open collar on her work blouse when I visited a restaurant for a chat with someone until I told my NT sister and she explained it's flirting. Then I researched, on the internet and checking out library books on romance and dating, what flirting is. (Yes, pursuant to AS, I'm clueless.)

I don't like to play the game ("chasing and flattering women" with the expectation I must make my first move) and, if relationship materialize, prefer marriage to avoid the painful consequences of the relationship involving intimacy and premarital sex (guilt, out of wedlock child, STD, instability, etc).

I still find NT women, at least when it comes to romantic possibility and their piqued interest in me but restrained while hoping that I make the first move, mysterious.

mindset_2_0
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12 Feb 2012, 5:37 pm

cyberdogg wrote:

I don't play the "game."

Nicely put. I do not play the game either. Do I have to?

Dear aspie ladies,

Do I have to play the game to get in touch with you?

I am looking forward to hearing from you...

Yours sincerely,
a possibly completely weird guy

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12 Feb 2012, 5:47 pm

gtw1983 wrote:

Or maybe it's not so much i'm on a foreign planet as I feel I was born in the wrong decade/century for a traditional romantic at heart like myself.

The degree of congruence is still amazing. I also have similar thoughts.

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19 Jul 2013, 10:32 pm

StewartMango wrote:

I am the 19 year old virgin and I am saving it up for my husband who MUST also be a virgin.

Now, I'm a 23 year old virgin and now I could care less if my husband is a virgin or not. I'm still saving myself until marriage.

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19 Jul 2013, 10:46 pm

21 and saving self for marriage. I agree about the husband also needing to be a virgin.

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19 Jul 2013, 10:54 pm

im 23.5 and not just a virgin but a kissless one. I dont mind being a virgin, it's the fact that no girl has wanted to do anything with me, that annoys me. atleast if i had a kiss or got a handjob/bj once in my life, id know i was attractive to girls, and i could one day have sex since those things are a precursor to sex.

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