Women is a no sex relationship ok with you?

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13 Jan 2015, 12:23 pm

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But no, a sexless relationship would not work out for me. Even a relationship where a partner was saving herself for marriage would not go well.


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13 Jan 2015, 6:13 pm

Yeah.

Then again, I'm asexual-no, I don't reproduce by myself. I'd be happy with...no sex. Ever. At all.

Everyone's different, though-it's all a matter of compatibility. I think.


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13 Jan 2015, 10:43 pm

TrueDave wrote:
I also judge a lot by the fact that my longest most loving relationship was non sexual for the first year.


Haha, mine too!

I usually hit it right off the bat...but this girl...I was her first and she was very special to me.

The sex after that first year was...incredible.



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13 Jan 2015, 10:45 pm

I would be perfectly fine with that.



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14 Jan 2015, 2:51 am

Space wrote:
TrueDave wrote:
I'm curious.

It seems sex has caused more problems than its worth in a lot of my dating. after sex a lot of the wonderment was gone. I still want to be with someone in a dating way. I had even hoped to maybe wait untill mariaage.

However my dating life slowed down when I started sayin "slow down" on the first or second date. I realized i had given in many times when I did not want to.I did'nt want to rush things. They quit calling immediately.

I also judge a lot by the fact that my longest most loving relationship was non sexual for the first year.

I have heard this from some men. I think it is because men peak sexually at 18-20, but women it's 30+ (or something like that).

Anyways, the sex is supposed to be better if you wait, so more power to you.
I have noticed that a lot when I was in my 20s my sex drive was at its peak but most women the same age were pretty much anti sex or were asexual but I did get approached my women in their 30s at my age but I showed little interest to them! Times change though since I am now 32 and willing to have a go with a woman at her 30s!


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14 Jan 2015, 6:32 pm

Woman can be sexy at any age above the age of majority.



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15 Jan 2015, 9:07 am

I would not be OK with that. I need sex in a relationship.



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15 Jan 2015, 9:29 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
I would not be OK with that. I need sex in a relationship.


Ditto. Outside of extreme circumstances, I would think that's a pretty large majority.



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15 Jan 2015, 9:50 pm

No. Never.