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30 May 2011, 6:17 pm

Looking for a friend or lover.

Age: 20
Gender: Male
Religion: Christian. I believe in the Rasta's version of the bible and whatnot... but this is not a religion. It is a way of life.
Location: Vancouver, Canada
Zodiac Sign: Pisces, March 20 (the day before aries, so it's a cusp)
Music: Reggae, Hip-Hop, Punk Rock, Blues, etc.

Interested In:
I'm attracted to someone who thinks outside of the box, understands the oppression of our society, is outgoing, enjoys spontaneous traveling because my future will probably consist of a lot of that.

About myself:
I have a low self esteem because my ego or imagination sometimes scares me & makes me feel unworthy.

I believe the aries side of me really enjoys the thrills of life, I love snowboarding, longboarding, & anything to get the adrenaline going but somewhat impulsive at times. The pisces side of me is very imaginative and dreamy but also modestly intelligent. I can be spontaneous, which can be exciting and fun for other thrill seeking type people.

I'm good at helping others reach and realize their potential. I am quite inventive and creative when it comes to business type related things, and if I am surrounded by the right type of influence. I like doing things without getting credit for my ideas or work. I care less about material things & more about the quality of my idea. I am compassionate, sensitive, & generous. I often enjoy being told what to do, if I'm learning & the advice is coming from the persons heart & not their ego. I enjoy pleasing my partner as much as I enjoy being pleased (im a virgin but astrology helped me understand this characteristic). I'm usually willing to try new things even if originally they do not appeal to me, but having good company is all that's needed.

I'm a vegan, I don't eat meat or dairy, don't drink coffee or alcohol, I'm not picky it's just a health thing. I dislike un-natural things. I believe that weed contributes greatly in longevity because it reduces stress. Weed is also great for problem solving. For me it depends entirely on the strain because some can make me totally chill, intelligent, and happy. Others give me chest pains, paranoia, and overly talkative.

Quality > Quantity!!

I'm great at detecting quality in things. I'm a bit eccentric, I plan to get dreadlocks if they work with my hair & I think I have a pretty good sense of style.
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Personality means a lot more to me than looks, which is why I'm on this forum. Trying to find somewhat similar minded person. If we talk I will get other pictures for you.

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Please send me a private message or an email to [email protected]


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07 Jun 2011, 6:08 pm

Destrucity wrote:
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lotusblossom wrote:

lesson for you singletons- go to aspie meet ups!


That would be awesome


sausage fest


exactly what i was thinking, since 80% of us are male, i dont know whether to laugh or cry.



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07 Jun 2011, 6:21 pm

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http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=15586656

^ This is me and my profile, i'm having no luck at all in finding the right lady. I message ladies, thoughtful messages and i don't receive any responses :(. Yet it seems ok for women who i well don't fancy just to say HI without anything else?


I cant find anything wrong with your profile, plus you seem to be handsome (this is coming from a straight guy)



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08 Jun 2011, 11:12 am

aliensyndrome wrote:
WeatherFreak wrote:
http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=15586656

^ This is me and my profile, i'm having no luck at all in finding the right lady. I message ladies, thoughtful messages and i don't receive any responses :(. Yet it seems ok for women who i well don't fancy just to say HI without anything else?


I cant find anything wrong with your profile, plus you seem to be handsome (this is coming from a straight guy)


Agreed! He is handsome, isn't he? (coming from a straight lady).



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10 Jun 2011, 7:58 pm

Well, I hate that I'm doing this, but hello.
My name is Ian Cleary and I'm 18. I was diagnosed with mild AS at 12 and seem to function well most of the time socially, unless I get uncomfortable. I'm just graduated high school and plan on going to school for Marine Biology, a longtime dream of mine. After college, I plan on getting a job at woods hole and perhaps become a researcher. I am into a lot of things and am very open to other things. I like to play pen and paper roleplaying games/tabletop games, I like Marine Biology, astronomy, biology, zoology, evolutionary biology, paleontology, cosmology, physics, astrophysics, theoretical physics, xenobiology, geology, writing, reading, Star Wars, Sci-Fi in general, Anime/Manga(Most anime and manga are too unoriginal, dull, or senseless for me), Fantasy, and some other stuff. My favorite activities are scuba diving, observing and studying wild animals, stargazing, writing, reading, and playing tabletop games like Yugioh, D&D, and Warhammer. I play piano and synthesizers. I'm also a furry, but I'm at the very shallow end of the fandom and do not have any interest in the darker parts of it. In fact, I hate or dislike a good half if not more of the entire fandom.

I've never had a girlfriend because I'm too shy to ask and too eccentric. And while I'm borderline asexual, I'd like to try having one at least once. I'm interested in someone who shares my interests(or has similar interests) and who is around my age 16-19.

Orientation: heterosexual
Weight: 140 lb(I weigh so little because I used to take adderall and it made me lose my hunger. However, I am not in shape.)
Height: 5'11"
Hair color: Dark Brown
Eye color: Brown
Ethnicity: Spirish(my name for people with a mix of Celtic and Spanish ancestry)
Location: Northeastern Florida, USA
Speaks: English, Spanish, 3 year student of Mandarin (but still don't have much proficiency)
Understands: Portuguese, Catalan, a little German, Aranese, Leonese, Extremaduran, Galician, Aragones, a little Italian.

I have very few serious photos of myself.
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11 Jun 2011, 9:55 am

Love is the ultimate syndrome: a conglomeration of symptoms that are ultimately harmful to a human being, if exposed for too long. Blame it on emotion, the metaphorical membrane that supposedly intertwines through every universe and binds them together. In my opinion, emotion only ravages, and ironically, is what stands between a successful and unsuccessful union. This is not to suggest that one can not experience happiness whilst in a relationship. Internal emotions are acceptable, and encouraged, but an attempt to extend and impose them on to others is illogical, and futile. Empathy is a theoretical concept. To love another is nonsensical, particularly because love doesn't appear to have any fixed definition. Perhaps, if one was to describe love, it would be as "what one feels for another, esp. positive". To clarify - for those who are wondering what the difference between radiating and withholding (or closed circuit) emotions, is - love should be known as a heavy portmanteau of sustaining emotions, which are able to be clearly recognized and sourced by the individual. Or rather, love should be logical, not emotional; a choice, not a current.

For those who remain, a personal description shall follow. Mind you, it shall not meander or linger around specifics, because I don't fancy holding the equivalent of a bright neon "Stalk Me" placard above my rather gargantuan, and very shootable, head. Writing this, I fancy future occasions in which you and I will lounge by the fire, recalling our youth in a whiny, nostalgic croon, and I so desperately want to emit a sporadic gasp from you as I unveil a secret you haven't yet heard. Lastly, I solemnly swear not to use this as an opportunity to regurgitate a diagnosis (in your own words, as the assignment sheet once said), italicizing the key words, I have Narrow Obsessions and am Awkward Socially, etcetera.

I was labelled with a mundane name at birth, with no relevance to the squirming infant that had emerged. In Earth-years, I am seventeen. I agree with the cliche: "Love" knows no boundaries, in my experience, people mature at different rates (when they want to, basically, which is mostly never). I would be comfortably with anyone between the age of ten and dead, because sexual relations don't factor into the equation. If not technically asexual, I consider myself a moral antisexualist. However, I am totally against eternal chastity of any kind (except regarding alcohol and other drugs), and if given a rational reason to reconsider, could be coerced. I operate in extremes - it's generally all or nothing (although, I doubt anyone has half-sex, for that matter). Back to the maturity issue - I don't mean to imply that I'm unbearably earnest. My favorite philosophical conversation is the one in which all involved laughing at the beginning, middle, and end - not a scene involving perturbed glances and much beard stroking. Those who I cannot tolerate are the monkeys gibbering "la la la I don't wanna think it gimme a head-ache!" and covering their ears to protect a withering brain. Indeed, I consider myself the consummate blend of intelligence and immaturity (I may wind up dating my vainglorious self when this is over...don't worry, I'm often confused as to whether or not I'm joking, too). I enjoy the playtimes of childhood: tag, hide-and-go-seek, murder-in-the-dark, and handball. I still play handball for at least an hour a day when possible, and often leave my younger cousins panting with exhaustion and begging for a drink-break. On a seriouser (curiouser, why not seriouser?) note, I am a voracious reader. If books were candy I would devour them after reading, to fulfill the metaphor. If a deranged librarian held me at gunpoint and demanded my three favorite authors, I would stammer the following: Philip K. Dick, B.S. Johnson, and Thomas Pynchon, but only to preserve my existence. They are often superseded, with the exception of PKD, who will remain monarch for a long time, yet. It's taken me seventeen years to discover science-fiction (I was originally a fantasy lad, which is an entirely alternate universe), and I am currently machine-gunning through all the sci-fi I can grasp. As with most fans of a craft, I imitate with the hope of achieving splendor. I may be delusional, but it's an enjoyable affliction.

My temporal location could be useful, perhaps. Assuming we inhabit the same universe, a meeting is at the very precipice of coincidence. Brisbane, Australia, is the enclosure they've allocated me to for observation (keep your hands out of the cage at all times...it's been known to feign sleep), although I'm yet to arrive. The next decad or so should see me in the concrete jungle, among the other rats (you can distinguish me by sleeker fur, and sharper teeth). Despair isn't necessary, though: I won't completely ignore anyone who is bizarre enough to desire my company in cyberspace (you shall occupy approximately 16% of my attention). This is where corniness seeps in - for a "serious" relationship to function, the creature should be near me for this embarrassing reason: no matter how stoic I seem, I crave...hugs. Cease snickering, or at least allow me room to join in. Indeed, I can become comfortable enough with someone to tolerate, nay, even demand, a hug. It's a rare phenomenon: scientists devote their lives to studying it. And...the nights get cold...and...I want someone...to hold me! For the extra warmth a body requires, of course. In the summer, you can begone, banished to your inferior mattress.

The issue with time: inevitably, it spawns boredom. Do I want a permanent union, to die in someone else's arms? I shudder at the pervasive thought - corpses should be kept separate. A relationship should be the celebration of freedom and individuality, not the signing off of these virtues to another. When the fun is gone, so should I be. I give a decent partnership ten years, but it could last longer, if you're a crafty demon at heart. Anyhow, I hope to die young - maybe we'll die together after an apocalyptic bout of handball. One more note: polyamory. Dismiss the whole "soulmate" sham - it's a decision, not destiny. Love can be directed at numerous targets, from the same source. Forget jealousy, the more love the better, correct? I don't advocate those who use polyamory as an excuse to have sex orgies, and I don't consider it the same as cheating, it's consensual. Nevertheless, I seriously doubt two people will ever desire me at the same time, so it shouldn't become an issue.

If a character from the future is reading this, I congratulate you on your endurance. As you can tell, I unintentionally lied: I meandered, I meandered bad. If you can appreciate wafflers, the lines of communication are open, from now until forever.



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11 Jun 2011, 1:56 pm

^ Highly verbose and impressive ad my friend.

Now...

BLUE_BEAN WANTS TO POST IN THIS THREAD AGAIN!! !

Age: 27
Sex: Femme fatale
Location: Mid North Coast NSW Australia
Height: 5' 7" or 170cm
Hair colour: Brown, sometimes dyed dark red
Eye colour: Grey
Complexion: Fair
Body type: Somewhere between slenderish and average
Star sign: Scorpio
Interests: AS, Second Life, Tarantino, heavy metal, driving, psychology.
Religion: Non-religious (was baptised Anglican when little if that counts for anything)
Occupation: Book-keeper/tax accountant
Looking for: Friendship with view to long term relationship

Summary: All the guys on Ok Cupid don't do nothing for me anymore in the way of what I really want. I'm starting to get a little antsy about settling down and finding something a bit more longer and stable than the usual one month shitstorm with some guy who is only semi-compatible with me (seriously those OKC %'s mean nothing). My judgement of your ability to provide said stability will be influenced by the stability of your life. If you live a life of ADHD induced whimsy and chop and change jobs or courses every six months with gregarious trips overseas in between you better well impress me in other areas. So you either will ideally be (a) in a career you like, (b) studying towards one with intent on sticking to it. Unemployed and on disability is fine as I'm not talking about things in a financial sense; the keyword is stability here, if you're happy with where you are in life that's fine. The bottom line is I just want to know that you're ready and capable of committing to someone (or to anything) for at least six months.
You Must Be Looking For A Genuine Relationship. Not a second best to make yourself forget about the girl you truly want. Not a temporary toy to fill in the void since your long term relationship ended a week ago. I'm Sick To Death of being the disposable third character in these annoying epic love soaps between guy and other chick. It's time for my epic.
I'm not fussy about body type, just as long as you're comfortable in your own skin and have no image issues.
Preferred age range is 25-45.
Preferably live anywhere in the east of Australia.



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12 Jun 2011, 1:15 am

Great one! Wish I lived in Australia!

I should fill out one too. These are always fun...

Age: 28
Sex: Dude Guy
Location: Downtown Vancouver
Height: 5' 9"
Hair colour: It's brown
Eye colour: Hazelish
Body type: It's that sweet spot between slender and average
Star sign: Hank Scorpio
Interests: Movies, cooking, animation, sushi, ye olde adventure games, martial arts, anything involving food really
Occupation: Student
Best Date Experience: Losing five hours over coffee just sitting, talking, and laughing
Worst Date Experience: Losing five minutes having coffee with a girl who didn't blink or have a sense of humor
Turn-Ons Include: Ponytails 'n glasses, creative discussion, and a common love for all things awesome
Turn-Offs Include: Heavy make-up, political discussion, and spending all day playing MMORPGs.
Looking for: Let's find out!
OKCupid: http://www.okcupid.com/profile/iwantnachos (I didn't realize this was a free dating site, so I just started a profile for the heck of it.)



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12 Jun 2011, 11:37 am

age: 21
sex: male, straight
location: philadelphia, pa
relgion: atheist mostly - slight deist, my religion is existentialism

height: 6'0
weight: 145 - skinny
hair: short black
eyes: brown
dressed: not too caught up in fashion, i like to dress casually but try to look good in a simple way
drinker: occasionnally
smoker: cigarettes occasionally, much more an herb guy personally

interests: all things music (my personal obsession) i enjoy listening, discussing, creating, djing music and going to concerts. current events/news, existential philosophy, movies, im a foodie, love spicy and flavorful food, i like to try cooking occasionally tho im not that good, street art/graffiti/all art for that matter

favorite music: like all kinds and always finding new music, my favorite stuff is 90's hip-hop, trance/progressive house, blues and psychedelic/progressive rock

turn-ons: independence, having something you're passionate about, living life according to your rules, doesn't feel the need to conform, likes to chill out but also interested in going out some times, intellectual, can be comfortable with my quietness but also be able to have a deep conversation with me. not necessarily caught up in fashion but knows how to take care of themselves

turn-offs: sheep, conformity, caught up in popularity, gossip, celebrity culture, socially conservative or insular thinking

looking for: anything really, only thing is that it would need to face to face, can't deal with an online or long distance relationship, i feel it would reinforce anti-social habits in me



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20 Jun 2011, 2:17 pm

Male, 52 yrs. old
White/Caucasian
Wiccan
Pisces

I'm not into dating at all neither that porn crap like AFF and such. Tried "plenty of fish" and some others but it's all about dating.

Had an online--only ... hm, affair? Developed randomly, we met on a social networking site. I had no idea about those things but fell in love with her. It worked out for a while then she disappeared.

What i'm definitely NOT looking for is online f*****g/trading porn pics.

I would like to really get to know a woman and share thoughts, experiences, ideas, imaginations, feelings. She should be a passionate writer and reader as well.

She should be 52 or older, location doesn't matter, can be married, spectrum or NT, any other condition, no matter.

My interests are nature, animals, all spiritual stuff, writing, reading. I'm low in maintenance and won't cause any trouble but sometimes i need some help to understand what others feel. This would require some patience.


Also, if anyone knows about a site where one could find online romance or relationship without dating, please let me know.



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22 Jun 2011, 9:50 am

just thinking folks should list their orientation as well.


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25 Jun 2011, 6:52 pm

let's try this again shall we? :wink:


Age: 25
Gender: Female
Appearance: 5'2.5" about 30lbs overweight, brunette w/brown eyes
Preference: the kinkier the better j/k, but seriously either to date, girls to settle down with
Locale: GTA/Etobicoke, Canada


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25 Jun 2011, 9:07 pm

Age: 33
Sex: X Y
Height: 5ft10
Orientation: Straight
Hair: used to be bright yellow but now turned Brown (cursed Florida sun! >< )
Eyes: Brown
Seeking: To marry someone that when we're in our 90's we will be snuggling in bed while plotting how to annoy the neighbor. Image

more details at:

http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile ... d=25883422


I'm 1.5 years from finishing my degrees and after that I'm relocating to New Zealand or Australia... not sure yet which one has the better university to do my Archeology masters in... preferably NZ (love the weather!).



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27 Jun 2011, 1:29 am

Hello im a 23 year old male aspergian who has never had any luck dating human females i am about 6 foot 3 inches tall with dirty blond hair and blueish grey eyes and i weigh about 260lb soon i will be starting massage school to become a licenced massage therapis i have always ben taught to take care of and protect women and despite my size and strength i an suprisingly gentle but because of my views on how women should be treated i have always ben taken advantage of, i am a physical kind of person verry simple and verry loyal, i am verry mature in alot of ways which makes it nearly imposible to get along with people my own age i like anime and video games and techno music, im looking for a long term relationship with a mature woman that knows what she wants and just needs a man that will always be there,



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27 Jun 2011, 5:46 pm

Ok. Here it goes! Apparently I am mildly Aspergers (self-diagnosed, of course). I used to think I was quirky, with a warped sense of humor. I actually have a couple of Aspergers kids of my own, whom I find delightful and entertaining.

I have always been out of step with the world and dating has posed problems for me. I am able to find like-minded girlfriends, but men are another story... For years I followed the "script" and acted how other's thought I should, which eventually ends badly, when I become comfortable and allow my traits to show. I am taking the advice I give my kids... "be yourself and people will love you."

I am 41. Live in s small country town about an hour from Brisbane, Australia. I rescue animals, particularly fowl, dogs and cats. I have s small collection of children from my marriage too.

I am good-looking, blonde-haired, green-eyed, 5'4" (164cm), slim and fit. I enjoy running and doing weights.

I love vampire-fiction. Am a star wars fan, not a star trekker!

What else should I say?



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27 Jun 2011, 5:56 pm

Oh, I did forget to mention that I am a female, looking for a man...