Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List
Hello and I'm 19 and pansexual. I'd love to meet someone who lives in Ohio that is around my age and likes to hold hands and make flower crowns. And it would be especially cool if they were a girl. But boys are nice too. My interests include reading, writing, singing badly, Neopets ,Harry Potter, My Little Pony, anime, manga, poetry, etc.
I'm just too geeky to handle. Talk geeky to me? 17-22
I think we need some members of the female persuasion to chime in, here.
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I'm looking for Someone to change my life. I'm looking for a Miracle in my life.
I'm single right now, and open minded to dating people from the internet.
But right now I'm transitioning, I want to be more androgynous and feminine. So I'm not really comfortable presenting myself right now.
Not pictures, at least. I want a lot of plastic surgery and maybe a little bit of hormone therapy, and things like that. Sorry.
Oh, and since one of the things about being autistic tends to mean really caring about your personal interests, it would probably be good if we had things in common, wouldn't it? Well, I like anime and Japanese RPGs. I also like My Little Pony. I'm into pastel and girly things. Anyone who likes cuteness and cute things will have a lot in common with me. And having someone to do something like play Tales of Symphonia or Pokemon together would be great.
How great would it be to collect Pokemon with a significant other? I think it would be.
And not just anime, but having similar taste in anime would be really nice. I really like magical girl anime and comedies. I'd love to meet someone who likes to watch things like Sailor Moon and Pretty Cure and Ojamajo Doremi and other shows.
I definitely want to be with people who like girly things of all sorts. I like frilly dresses and candy coloured make-up, and pastel colours. And Pokemon. And magical girl shows and My Little Pony. And pretty much everything cute and girly. I like a variety of music, too.
I'm not much into team sports but I do like some hobbies and activities like that. I like both the beach and the snowy mountains and the sports on them. I like skateboarding and snowboarding and boardsports like that. So someone who likes to go swimming or surfing on skimboarding or anything like that would have a lot of wonderful things to do together. And I think we would have things in common.
Oh, and in music, I like both hardcore punk and hardcore techno. So whether you're into straight edge or math rock screamo or happy hardcore and hardstyle, I think we would have things in common. I like a lot more music, but I thought I would mention those.
Well, I guess that is good and okay for now. Hi everyone.
I think we need some members of the female persuasion to chime in, here.
Indeed. Mine just get deleted.
All the misogyny that goes on in this forum...all the rubbish that gets said here and those posts get left alone.
I've even had a PM from someone I don't know that my posts shouldn't have been deleted.
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I've left WP.
Name: Jason
Age: 31
Gender: Male
Location: Ontario, Canada
Looking for: Female, AS, NT, it doesn't matter to me as long as she's kind hearted down to earth and understanding
AS Level: Aspergers (semi-professional diagnosis)* (if someone msgs me i'll explain what I mean by 'semi-professional')
Life goals: To be happy! Finding a woman i'll fall in love with to spend the rest of my life with more then anything else (this is a big part of the struggle with depression i've been dealing with, it's very important to me to find someone to care about). Hopefully to get back on my feet and re-engage in the scientific community to contribute to protein based drug development or any niche that aim's to improve the lives of humans, it's what got me into Science in the first place.
Personality type: INTJ. I'm introverted but as soon as someone talks to me with interest I have no problem talking for hours if that's how it turns out (other words I won't force someone to listen to me for hours if they don't want lol). I'm a very logical 'thinker' who prefers 'thinking' the things I do rather then relying on feeling alone (i'm a Scientist, kinda ingrained in my being). On that same note i'm a judging person in that I like to discuss, think thing's out and ask for the experiences of other's to make judgement's on the thing's I do. It's very important to me the opinion of others as I find it the most valuable resource for making choices. I'm very accomodating and get more enjoyment out of listening to other's who are seeking help with something and gain a wonderful sense of happiness when I can help someone out and I know that my attempt's to help have helped the person overcome or deal with whatever problem they were confronting. Having said all that i'm a great listener and it makes me very happy to know that the person i'm listening to values my help and am elated when I can help them through something just by listening and being there for them. I'll drop all my plan's for a friend who needs someone to talk to cuz it means a lot to me that the people i'm around have someone to come to when they're really in need of help/advice or just company because i've been in those situations myself and would do anything to help someone not have to suffer the pains and lulls that come with life. I'm not really all that confident in my social masculinity because i've never had a girlfriend in my 31 years and this has hurt me a lot, a constant struggle. I still love to watch a game of Hockey and have a few beer's with the guy's and other guy stuff, i'm just a very openly emotional and sensitive person which obviously doesn't always jive with the 'masculine' mentality. But I prefer this because I think it's important to be open to those around you and when the good emotions happen it's much more enjoyable (and sadly when the bad emotions happen i'm just as sensitive). To put it in a nutshell i'm looking for someone I can hold in my arms at night/cuddle and know they're just as happy spending time with me as I am with them.
Education: B.Sc. Honours Biochemistry & the research component of an M.Sc. Biophysics of Structural Biochemistry
Working Goals: My goal is to work in the field of science in some capacity. I have worked in several labs ranging from government diagnostic lab's to being a lab coordinator charged with setting up a brand new lab for two post doc's. I am currently unemployed and on disability due to a recurring condition of whats aptly named ?Daily Chronic Migraine(s). I'm looking into opportunities for working from home given my interest and hobby of PC repair as well as possible consulting work for academic biochemistry research.
Hobbies: MUSIC, Trance music is so important in my life. It's had the most powerful impact on cheering me up when i'm down and depressed. Also love harder metal, particularly from the 90's (NiN, 1st 3 Korn Albums, Fear Factory, Bush, etc.). Playing videogames (mostly MMORPGs though my time playing games has waned over time as my interest in developing relationship's and hopefully a family have grown). PC repair and 'PC enthusiast'. Camping. Good TV series. Studying different branches of the sciences, particularly particle physics and quantum theory (i've become kind of a nut over the LHC in the last 10 years when it was almost finished till now that we've made a major discovery with it).
Body type: Slim, I don't work out so i'm not ripped just you're average skinny white guy . Not a string bean as i'm only 5'9", so just average slim.
Politics: I try not to label my political beliefs because politics is a very volatile subject to most but i'd say I lean more Liberal and absolutely believe in change, for example technologically and in equality to all, rich or poor; man or woman; muslim or asian (this comes from my being a Canadian I think). I just want a society in which people are happy
Cats or Dogs: 1 Cat
TV: Love Sci-Fi, i'm definitely a Trekky but enjoy show's from Stargate to Firefly. I'm starting to get into some Anime (Bleach right now). I also like brainless shows like cop's etc. when i just need to chill out and just relax.
Movies: Again Sci-Fi big time. I have a particular fondness for movies with very unique plot's (my favourite movies are The Matrix and Fight Club, Momento was also a great movie). I love a lot of cult classics and in general any new movie that comes out that's different in some way.
Books: I'm not huge into reading but always love it when someone recommends one to me cuz I often find myself enjoying it even though I say I don't like reading
Things I like in women:
- Empathy
- Like to engage in Intellectually stimulating conversations
- Caring
- Understanding & Compassion
- Humour (of any kind )
Like I said above i'm a pretty uh ... mushy guy who would for example enjoy more then anything laying in bed cuddling and staying up all night chatting about silly thing's that make us both laugh/happy
Cleveland Ohio
I am looking for that funny, cute, thought-provoking, non-mainstream, truely honest type of girl. Someone who isn't only out for personal gain, but is someone who thinks of others, enjoys the simple things in life, sees art and beauty in total nothingness. Someone who makes me think and is the arty type that doesn't see the world as most of society. I can't help liking what I like, but I like skinny, short, punk / emo girls. Women with personalities who aren't glued to their cellphones, facebook, myspace, twitter, etc. A girl I could hang out with, be myself, actually not have to feel like I need to guard myself. Someone who is happy with just taking a long walk, or looking up at the stars, taking in the beauty in life. A deep thinker that can appriciate the little things, and someone who doesn't judge. I have run into this type of person maybe 1 time. Not really sure if she exists.
I am 29 years old, 6 foot 1 inch, 180 pounds. Skinny and somewhat muscular due to my line of work. Brown hair and brown eyes. Sometimes long hair, sometimes short, beard / no beard, depends on my mood. For me, honesty is huge with me. When I say somthing, you can take it to the bank. I cannot stand liars, have dealt with enough over the years that I don't tolerate it anymore. One downfall which has messed me up socially in life is that I am extremely shy. If I ran into you at a store, it may take me a month of "attempting" to flirt to actually work up the nerve to ask you out. It's bad, but once I get to know you and feel comfortable, you would never know I had a problem. This unfortunately has made me feel to the point that I just don't fit in anywhere in society and live pretty much like a hermit only coming out to work. Between being shy and working non-stop since I was 14, this messed me up relationship-wise because I never had the time to enjoy being young, finding love, and actually know what the hell I am doing. It's all pretty damn new to me. Shouldn't be at age 29, lol. I am a very open minded person. Also D and D free and looking for the same.
A little about my interests: Art, photography, hiking, looking up at the stars / moonlight walks, listening to music ( I love non-mainstream, music that actually makes you think /feel and see life differently. Placebo is my all time fav) going to the movies, staying in, bon-fires, just sitting and talking for hours. Reading, classic movies, cars, car shows, cruising (cars are a huge part of my life since I was small, high performance street / race cars are what I work on, own, build (nothing tuner-foreign car, big wing rides, only classics, muscle, race, American cars) I am very biased on this subject, lol. I am someone who has always put others ahead of myself. This has come back to bite me in the ass a few times, but I always try to help anyone and everyone. Whether it's doing extra work on a job no charge, or just taking care of someone. I have been known as a "doormat" before because some people have come to abuse my willingness to help. This is a huge turn-off. I never like to see anyone in pain or suffer so I always do my best to help. I am a man who appriciates the little things in life and doesn't need much to be happy. All i am really searching for now is a kind, sweet, trustworthy, non-cheating girl (I am so against cheating and cannot understand how someone can do it.) to help me open up and wants to know who I am and doesn't want to turn around and run because of my lack of knowledge relationship-wise. I am not looking for a f**k-buddy. I am looking to get to know you. The person you actually are. I want that deeper connection that I never seem to find. I am a hopless romantic. And maybe my lack of experience is a downfall for me. I hope there is somone like this and is not just in the movies I have seen. Maybe this doesn't exist. All I know is that I am very shy and this is an obsticle I struggle to cross. To see me, you would never think that I am this way. I want someone that I don't have to hide from. I just look like your average hard working, manual labor, car loving, physically fit guy. Just shy and introverted and extremely lonely, yet surrounded. I am not ugly (I don't think, lol) I like to talk, obviously.
If you are still reading, I am looking for a girl who is 20 to 32 and lives somewhere close (brecksville, broadview hts, parma, seven hills, brook park, independence, north royalton, brunswick, strongsville, etc.) Due to my job I cannot go far since all my accounts are close to where I reside. looking for friends first (I want to get to know you : ) ) and if I find the right girl, a committed, LTR. Side note: I am old-school and only date 1 person at a time, and won't go looking for another. I hope you are the same. It's way too rare these days to find someone like that.
Age: 25, I'll be 26 next month
Orientation: straight
Height: 1.82 (6')
Weight: 96kg (212 lbs)
Location: Baltimore, Maryland
My name is Shawn. I am very health conscious and care a lot about my health. I plan on becoming a personal trainer. I like reading comics, working out, watching Doctor Who and playing video games. I am mainly into PC FPS. I spend a lot of my time reading for enjoyment and to further educate myself. I love science fiction. I am into Doctor Who, Star Wars, Star Trek(Next Generation mainly), Terminator(Or any action movie with Arnold) and much more. I am into some anime, such as Guyver, Death Note and Berzerk. I'm still trying to find more anime, but a lot of it gets too campy for me. I like anime, that is more serious.
I want someone who is nice, caring and that I have things in common with. I am into women that are on the nerdy side. I want someone who is straight forward and honest.
Meh, let's write another one and see what happens.
Name: Jay*
Age: 22
Gender: Male
Looking For: Friendship with anyone near by me. 30 mile traveling lenience.
AS: Diagnosed at 5. Was told of my condition at an age I could understand (10).
Personality: Often described as a 'wise head on young shoulders'. Slow burner. Outgoing, and conscientious.
Life Goals: To become an inspiring Writer and Film Director. I have a huge passion for telling stories crafted from life experiences and societal observations.
Location: East London
Physical description: 5"11, Average build, with beard and naturally hairy.
Education: College Diploma and BA (HONS) University Degree.
Hobbies: Filmmaking, Job-hunting (ha!), Reading Books, Writing (Poems, Stories etc.) Playing Bass Guitar, Listening to and Creating Music, TV, XBOX etc. etc. Always up for doing something different or trying something new. Activity wise.
Pets: 2 dogs.
Religion: Do not believe or follow any faith, but doesn't discourage others. People are entitled to follow whatever religion.
Politics: Politically savvy, but in this country, it's always a messy double-edged sword of corruption, hypocrisy and contradiction.
Likes: Reliability, like-minded personalities. Good and eclectic sense of humour and tastes in TV, Film, Books & Music. Genuine understanding. A good old debate.
Dislikes: The opposite to the above I suppose. Two-faced behaviour too. If you're not happy with me, say it to my face. Also, people who try and push my buttons. I'm more annoyed at that you're trying, rather than what you're actually saying and doing.
That's all! PM me if you wish.
*It's short for my real name. PM me if you'd like to know.
Bored, so might as well toss something up here. Not really anything to lose.
Male. 21. Straight. Have AS, diagnosed by multiple professionals. Also have depression and anxiety, which are kept under control by self analysis.
Not really looking for anything, but if I trip over something, I'll go for it.
Personality: Extremely strong core values (Be honorable, be as honest as possible, and above all, do no harm) which I am unwilling to sacrifice for any reason, and I am unable to accept any person who directly goes against any of them as anything but a despised enemy. I do not speak up or act out on my emotions as often as many others, but I will if I feel it will forward my goals. This may result in neglecting my emotional needs, or cause some degree of self destructive relationship seeking. I am a counselor and defender type personality, as I will drop everything I am doing to assist others at risk of damaging my own life in the process. I will attempt to repair a friendship or relationship if things go badly, as I cannot stand loose ends.
I vote Green Party.
Nonreligious, no problem with religious folks provided they do not attempt to convert others.
Hello people, I am looking for someone. Not necessarily for a relationship, but I guess any interaction with another person constitutes some sort of relationship. I don't know. Anyway, I'm looking for a person. I haven't interacted with many people in a long time, and I notice that I am withdrawing more and more into myself. So I would like to have a person to communicate with on a regular basis. Preferably someone who is understanding of the fact that I will talk to them all the time, then disappear for long stretches of time. I suppose a female might be nice? The prospect of romance is always a fun one to dream on, however unrealistic it may be.
About me then. I'm male, and 23 years old. I'm undiagnosed, but it seems readily apparent to me. I am also asexual. I do not with to pursue a sexual relationship with anyone, though a romantic one is a possibility. The issue is that it is difficult to sustain my interest. I mentioned dropping communication sometimes. That can be a part of it. In the past, I've seduced and been seduced by women, but I will often lose interest and want to disappear, then return. I can't sustain being in relationship mode for a while. Or being in any mode for too long. I'll jump from being very innocent and childlike, to being very romantic and affectionate, to being very cold and logical, to being terrified of everything around me, and everything in between. Most of the time I'm logical, and tsundere to the max. Sometimes I desperately crave affection, other times I outright reject it. It's a difficult thing for people to deal with, the inconsistency of it all. I dream that one day I'll be playing at the playground and will meet a girl who is mute, and we eventually overcome communication difficulties and crippling social awkwardness to develop some sort of relationship. And said person will put up with me. Though it seems quite unlikely, as lately I'm mostly too afraid to speak to anyone if I don't have to. I would one day like a storybook romance. I almost did once, but that's a story for another time.
Anyway, interests. I have two. They are video games (mostly niche Japanese things) and sports (mostly statistics). The vast majority of my life revolves around those two things. I appreciate the poster above who mentioned Pokemon, because Pokemon is fantastic. It would be great to have someone to play with. It would be great to play many games together with someone. To experience the story together, and cooperate to figure out challenges. Anyway, the other thing is mostly baseball. Baseball, as an inherently unfair and discrete game, is endlessly fascinating. And you can analyze almost any aspect of it. It's very fun. I also like analytics for other sports as well, but baseball is on top since it has by far the most depth.
Here is what I want, realistically: A person to interact with me. Preferably female, so there can be an attraction that is fostered and develops through time, potentially culminating in a real life meeting that would terrify the crap out of me. Well, theoretically I could be attracted to a male too, but it hasn't happened yet. I like bright pink and purple, and girly things, so I associate with women more. When I played the latest Pokemon game, I used only Fairy type Pokemon, because I was being a fairy princess. What I want, unrealistically: A person that I do somehow develop a consistent relationship with. Eventually, I could live with this person, spending our time mostly playing games and doing whatever. We could be close when desired, but also give one another space when necessary. But mostly I just want someone to lay around, play games, and be a reclusive nerd with me.
I believe I've probably done a terrible job of describing myself. It's sometime I've never been able to do. I'll probably be one of the stranger persons you've met in your life, which is something I revel in. I'm feeling particularly lonely on this day, and would like to meet someone. As unlikely as it is, I will hold out hope that someone will send me a message through here.
I think we need some members of the female persuasion to chime in, here.
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I think 'Eligible Odd-Bods', is a great idea
but.....
there's 234 pages of posts from all over the world and many of the posts are comments on other posts, so unless I read every page....
is there a condensed version anywhere lol
or any way of running a 'localised' search?
or an age range one
If there are any spectrum women in the South Wales/ Bristol or even Bath region who'd like to get to know a 57 yr old Asp (diagnosed), divorced, grown-up children, blah blah. I have a small dog and my interests are foreign (to the UK lol) films - mostly japanese, korean and european. Computers (now there's a surprise), playing guitar badly and listening to fairly diverse music. I'm interested in the environment, a veggie verging on vegan and vaguely an old hippy.
I could go on, but won't, or this will slip into self - perservation ha ha
pm me if you'd like to say hello
My first post, from a cell phone at that. I am tired of trying relationships with NTs, none of which have worked out well. I am attracted to quirks, logic process, rational discussions, compassion, justice and honor. I never knew there were others like me.
I want to talk, I want to laugh.... but I do not find any humor in putting people in boxes or putting down differences... something many men NTs seem to find humor in. Totally not for me. Its seems they are quick to point out that there is something wrong with me if I dont find their jokes funny or get angry at me when I explain why I dont. Well... they are right. I am not normal.
I believe in justice equality responsibility and thinking. I am all over the USA for my job. I work for myself and am somewhat a hermit by choice. I love life and find humor and amazement in small things. I am in great shape, outgoing by nature but have learned to be introverted from experience.
I would love to text or chat with anyone who can value me as a human being.
is there a condensed version anywhere lol
Well, people come and go at this forum, so even if you did find someone interesting a hundred pages back, there's no guarantee that they're still around.
I find great humor in putting cats in boxes
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I'm looking for Someone to change my life. I'm looking for a Miracle in my life.