People 5 years older to me find me attractive

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Asperger's syndrome is high-functioning, and makes us more intelligent, more restrained, less laddish and social. That's basically the veneer of an older man, one who is happy with himself, smart, well-groomed. So I suspect that, assuming you're an intelligent guy, they are attracted to you as a surrogate older man.

I get more compliments from women who are about a decade older than me or more, but I'd say this is entirely because they want me to feel better about myself. Most women closer to my age would be afraid of doing this because a compliment can mean something else.