NeantHumain wrote:
While swimming today, I saw a girl I had talked to a few weeks before, so I decided, despite things getting a little weird last time, I'd talk to her again. Things got a little risqué, and one of her friends in particular was getting pissed off at both her and me. I don't really see why because it's not her life. In the end, her friend ruined it. Does anyone know why she might have done that?
Women hang in pairs or groups. It's for socialization as much as it is for protection. They make dates and hang with each other in a casual but very specific date. If someone they meet gives more attention to one of the pair of girls, the other one will feel left out and ignored. This is her pal, who will talk to her about how rude you were by making her feel so unwanted. This is no way to impress your friend, as you want her on your side when counseling your prospective girl friend, right?
Men hang out with each other differently and one will easily roll off to do his own thing while hanging with a male friend, especially if the other guy is chatting up a girl. Or, the unoccupied male will talk to the girls' friend while his friend talks to the girl alone, it's called being a 'wingman'. Guys understand that no one wants to feel left out, and they know that women tell each other everything.
simple really, just good manners.
Merle
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