Getting to know an AS girl at the local AS club

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03 Feb 2007, 5:20 am

Hi, I'm new here and I wanted to ask for your opinions.
For some time now I go to a local AS club, and it's really
nice and all, though there aren't many girls there.
There's this one girl which seems nice, and I want to get
to know her better. The thing is, she always sits away from
where I sit, and after every group meeting we all disperss and
go home. so, untill now I haven't had the opportunity to
talk with her.

What do you think I should do then?

Thanks in advance,
Coalbiter.



SilentJohn
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03 Feb 2007, 10:30 am

like...if she ends up being sexually attracted to you, but she's scared to get to know you, get it through her thick female head, that she SHOULD try to hook up with you, implying of course, that you are the only guy with your eye on her.



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03 Feb 2007, 1:45 pm

I just want to talk and know more about her, what kind of person she is.
you know, a small conversation, a chit-chat. though it beats me how exactly I
should approach her. it would've been a lot easier if she sat beside me :wink:

any suggetions?



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04 Feb 2007, 9:19 am

when I first posted here I hadn't realise my question was such a tough one to answer.
can't people here help out another fellow aspie?
I'd also very much appreciate some wp girls' point of view :-)

thanks.



Demonic_Duck
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04 Feb 2007, 9:38 am

You just gotta remember that you're sitting apart from her just as much as she's sitting apart from you. She's probably just as shy as you.



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04 Feb 2007, 10:04 am

actually she seems shier :o
I guess I'll just have to improvise.