Fireblossom wrote:
Normally I'd say that backing out on something you'd already promised to do would be wrong, but with how rude the guy was, I don't think you were in the wrong here.
If you did such a bad job (in his opinion) last time, why ask you again? If he wanted you to do better next time, why not give a list of appropriate advice when it was time instead of ruining your night? It's fine to set some boundaries like you did here when the other person is too demanding (and on other occasions too, but especially in cases like these.)
He and I live in the same neighborhood and he and is mom thought I could go over to his place and take care of her, instead of having the cat go to their friend's house.
He's been very rude to me on several occasions and I have limited my time with him.
For example, one morning, while he was doing the garbage dump, I attempted to say "Hi" and he started having a meltdown over that. "You scared me, you scared me,"
He's also been very rude about the air-fryer situation
1. He didn't acknowledge the gift or say thank you
2. When I offered to help set it up, he screamed "No" at me. Excuse me for breathing and attempting to even be generous.