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Carbonhalo
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04 Oct 2024, 10:53 pm

Of course I didn't fit on the same page.
I wonder how many WP members were as affected by Heinlen as I was.



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05 Oct 2024, 2:40 am

bee33 wrote:
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all my life it was the very rare person who could grok me. or me, them.

You're very "grokked" here on WP!

thank you very much, Bee :flower:



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05 Oct 2024, 3:46 am

auntblabby wrote:
bee33 wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
all my life it was the very rare person who could grok me. or me, them.

You're very "grokked" here on WP!

thank you very much, Bee :flower:


I think you are likeable, I have had good conversations with you in the past. You know the importance of brevity, whereas I tend to be more verbose, ha ha.


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05 Oct 2024, 3:21 pm

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I think you are likeable, I have had good conversations with you in the past. You know the importance of brevity, whereas I tend to be more verbose, ha ha.

thank you GA :) I joke with folks in general that I do small talk just fine, I just don't do big talk. :jester:



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07 Oct 2024, 7:45 am

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No matter how hard I tried in high school, I was always excluded, ignored and made fun of. Why do people complain about being led on, one-sided friendships, etc. when they are doing the same rude behavior to others? I try my best to not come off as awkward but even if I don't seem awkward or portray unwelcoming body language, hardly anyone wanted to be my friend. I am now working (I am 20) in hopes that I will go to school one day. And I couldn't help but be hurt when people didn't say "bless you" to me when I sneeze but do it to other people after I sneeze. I can't help but feel that 60% of people are superficial jerks.


I wonder if its because of my looks, my lack of knowledge and participation in trends, etc. My parents taught me nothing when it came to things like making friends:(


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07 Oct 2024, 3:33 pm

pokeystinker wrote:
DancingSunflower13 wrote:
No matter how hard I tried in high school, I was always excluded, ignored and made fun of. Why do people complain about being led on, one-sided friendships, etc. when they are doing the same rude behavior to others? I try my best to not come off as awkward but even if I don't seem awkward or portray unwelcoming body language, hardly anyone wanted to be my friend. I am now working (I am 20) in hopes that I will go to school one day. And I couldn't help but be hurt when people didn't say "bless you" to me when I sneeze but do it to other people after I sneeze. I can't help but feel that 60% of people are superficial jerks.


I wonder if its because of my looks, my lack of knowledge and participation in trends, etc. My parents taught me nothing when it came to things like making friends:(


We're strangers in an alien place.


I feel like this everyday and especially when it comes to things like special interests and hyper focuses when others are not interested\



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09 Oct 2024, 9:48 pm

I've recently been ghosted by a bestie that I've found who promised to be bff's and finally let my guard down after a long string of being ghosted my entire life. The only friend I've had that didn't ghost me was a friend for 10 yrs and died of pancreatic cancer. It makes me question "what's wrong with me." I've studied microexpressions and behavior intellectually and have improved my E.Q. I'm currently cut off from nearly everyone and my guard is up more than it ever was before since I had dropped it for that "friend." Anyone relate?


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11 Oct 2024, 9:30 am

- When I was young, I had high hopes that a childhood friend and I would be life long besties. Then when she reached adolescents, she started losing interested in me while gravitating to being with the cool kids. While we had a two and a half year hiatus, she and her mom came back and made it sound like they wanted to work things out. When in actuality, they led me around. I was so mad at this friend. However, it worked out for the best because she was not a good friend to me.

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13 Oct 2024, 12:05 pm

Fallon.T wrote:
I've recently been ghosted by a bestie that I've found who promised to be bff's and finally let my guard down after a long string of being ghosted my entire life. The only friend I've had that didn't ghost me was a friend for 10 yrs and died of pancreatic cancer. It makes me question "what's wrong with me." I've studied microexpressions and behavior intellectually and have improved my E.Q. I'm currently cut off from nearly everyone and my guard is up more than it ever was before since I had dropped it for that "friend." Anyone relate?


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