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30 Apr 2018, 5:54 am

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What a***holes. I hate them already. Are you on medicine for your anxiety? It sounds like it would help a lot. Personally, I’d be tempted to cut parents like that off.

From what I’ve seen from Eastern European cultures, they’re quite hard and cold people compared to the west. Have you thought of moving countries?


At least these cultures have done much to preserve their culture , unlike these new order types in the west who allow their culture to be over run by people who are incompatible to them .

Are Japanese people cold and racist for wanting to be Japanese ?


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30 Apr 2018, 5:56 am

magz wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
What a***holes. I hate them already. Are you on medicine for your anxiety? It sounds like it would help a lot. Personally, I’d be tempted to cut parents like that off.

From what I’ve seen from Eastern European cultures, they’re quite hard and cold people compared to the west. Have you thought of moving countries?

Belgium is no Eastern Europe :) I don't want to derail the topic but I'm curious what you've seen... because I would disagree at least about the "cold" part.

But back to the OP: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dysfuncti ... asic_roles
You likely were the "Golden Child". Once you decided to stop being one, they lost the stability of their system, so they are angry at you.
You need to get out of that sh*t.


I missed this , surely a gaff ?


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30 Apr 2018, 6:30 am

many ret*ds seem quite happy to me , your parents don't want to be you to be happy? I wouldn't mind being ret*d the western welfare state would step up to the plate and look after me . Not rich countries like Hong Kong or Singapore , something seriously wrong with these countries , the richest countries in the world and you have people living in cages , sickening .


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30 Apr 2018, 6:33 am

aussiebloke wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
What a***holes. I hate them already. Are you on medicine for your anxiety? It sounds like it would help a lot. Personally, I’d be tempted to cut parents like that off.

From what I’ve seen from Eastern European cultures, they’re quite hard and cold people compared to the west. Have you thought of moving countries?


At least these cultures have done much to preserve their culture , unlike these new order types in the west who allow their culture to be over run by people who are incompatible to them .

Are Japanese people cold and racist for wanting to be Japanese ?



Actually if your reading this and if your really aspie I doubt you are , I did read you wanted to go to Japan (cold hearted people as they accept no refuges or immigrants , We Anglo Saxons are "kind hearted" cause we will accept anyone :roll:


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30 Apr 2018, 6:37 am

I am sorry you have bad parents , pretty sick bad people would pop out children . I wouldn't as I am "bad: so that makes me decent in a way?


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30 Apr 2018, 6:39 am

I am kind of a fan of Eastern Europe/ Russia , why my offense Fiona , if your reading this which I assume your not :wink:


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