The only person that will never abandon us, so long as we don't give up, is ourselves. Others - whether they be family, friends, strangers, advocates or foes - can always change, and for reasons that are beyond my comprehension (and likely others, I would suspect). If she had no problem with you being yourself, why would that suddenly change? I hate to ask, but did something happen that may not seem to have significance to you? Did you ask her to attend church with you or was religion becoming a frequent or prominent subject of conversation? Speaking from personal experience, I know that when others begin to talk about religious subjects (moreso than if the discussion stays on more spiritual topics) that I get uncomfortable and can become distant. It isn't that I begrudge their faith - I admire the ability to a certain extent - but I have nothing to say that would not likely be construed as either an attack or a dismissal of their religious beliefs. Some people in my life have experienced radical religious conversions; while there was a period of adjustment where we spoke much less that before if at all, we did eventually return to a level of friendship akin to what we had before their change in perspective. I think you give entirely too much weight to the views of a potential partner; I think the issue has more to do with how well -both- of you can handle accepting the difference between you... and to me, there is a huge difference between the two.
M.
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My thanks to all the wonderful members here; I will miss the opportunity to continue to learn and work with you.
For those who seek an alternative, it is coming.
So long, and thanks for all the fish!