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Kat15
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08 Jun 2010, 1:31 am

Im so bored. with no friends. what do i do.?

im homeschooled, but im scared to go to public school. my mom is trying to get the word out about AS to the high school because they refuse to help me in my situation, i DONT want to draw attention to myself by her doing that, but she wont listen to me, so im scared and embarassed.

also its depressing because my sister has alot of friends, even my MOM has more friends....

i dont know what to do.



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08 Jun 2010, 2:14 am

you don't go outside and play?



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08 Jun 2010, 2:33 am

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you don't go outside and play?


and play with who? I live in an old people area, all the kids live in big neiborhoods..



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08 Jun 2010, 3:00 am

Awh, I'm sure you have friends! :) I don't know if it's an Aspie thing or not, but I most often feel like I have no friends when I'm alone, mainly because I don't have any of my friends around. Maybe this is just a bad day for you? I don't mean to impose my opinions, just to suggest. :)


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08 Jun 2010, 5:33 am

BeauZa wrote:
Awh, I'm sure you have friends! :) I don't know if it's an Aspie thing or not, but I most often feel like I have no friends when I'm alone, mainly because I don't have any of my friends around. Maybe this is just a bad day for you? I don't mean to impose my opinions, just to suggest. :)


Trust me, some of us really don't have friends.



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08 Jun 2010, 6:53 am

There is a looking for friends topic here on WP

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt58.html << for people Age 19 Onwards
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt56.html Ages 15 through 18
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt55.html Ages 12 through 14
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt54.html Ages 5 through 12

Also, if you would like to be friend of me (I was homeschooled and had single studying this year), feel free to private message me :)



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08 Jun 2010, 5:55 pm

BeauZa wrote:
Awh, I'm sure you have friends! :) I don't know if it's an Aspie thing or not, but I most often feel like I have no friends when I'm alone, mainly because I don't have any of my friends around. Maybe this is just a bad day for you? I don't mean to impose my opinions, just to suggest. :)


thanks, but i REALLY dont. i've been homeschooled for 2 years. No social contact with anyone except my sister. =/



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08 Jun 2010, 5:55 pm

Viktor wrote:
There is a looking for friends topic here on WP

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt58.html << for people Age 19 Onwards
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt56.html Ages 15 through 18
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt55.html Ages 12 through 14
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt54.html Ages 5 through 12

Also, if you would like to be friend of me (I was homeschooled and had single studying this year), feel free to private message me :)


Nobody lives in my area, and im scared to post where I live.



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08 Jun 2010, 9:25 pm

I don't have friends, yet as typically clich'ed as it is I have adjusted to just distracting myself with work and a fantasy World. All I can suggest is take risks and put yourself outside your comfort zone as from my own experience I have not made friends but grown as a person and made memories which is important right.


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09 Jun 2010, 1:27 am

Kat15 wrote:
thanks, but i REALLY dont. i've been homeschooled for 2 years. No social contact with anyone except my sister. =/


Oh. Please pardon my ignorance. :(
Well, if you are willing to try getting out and making some friends there is a great deal of opportunities for you to do so! :)
You could start by looking up some special interest groups in your area that match up with what you like as a hobby or interest.


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09 Jun 2010, 1:30 am

BeauZa wrote:
Kat15 wrote:
thanks, but i REALLY dont. i've been homeschooled for 2 years. No social contact with anyone except my sister. =/


Oh. Please pardon my ignorance. :(
Well, if you are willing to try getting out and making some friends there is a great deal of opportunities for you to do so! :)
You could start by looking up some special interest groups in your area that match up with what you like as a hobby or interest.[/quote

It's ok. I suppose I could try that.



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09 Jun 2010, 1:47 am

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It's ok. I suppose I could try that.


Nice! Best of luck. :)
Btw, that avvy of yours (the emo kitteh) is too adorable! Is it a lolcatz?


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09 Jun 2010, 2:00 am

BeauZa wrote:
Kat15 wrote:
It's ok. I suppose I could try that.


Nice! Best of luck. :)
Btw, that avvy of yours (the emo kitteh) is too adorable! Is it a lolcatz?


thank you :D Im not sure where I found it i've had it saved on my computer for a while now, it kinda relates to me, i dont hate everything necasarily, just alot of things



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10 Jun 2010, 7:26 am

Kat15 wrote:
thank you :D Im not sure where I found it i've had it saved on my computer for a while now, it kinda relates to me, i dont hate everything necasarily, just alot of things


Lol, I had gathered. It's impossible to like everything, yet at the same time there is always something you will appreciate. :)


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13 Jun 2010, 2:36 am

Just wait till it feels like when you're older... unless you're a girl.. then just wait for the guy to come to you.



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13 Jun 2010, 1:13 pm

harlequinsenor wrote:
Just wait till it feels like when you're older... unless you're a girl.. then just wait for the guy to come to you.


Girls have it so much easier. (I'm joking) But I truly believe it's easier for a women to find males than it is for a man to find a girl.


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