I wish I knew. I seem to do OK if it's a group of me + 1 or 2, but beyond that I'm lost. Even at work, for instance in a group of people on a conference call, where I'm the expert on the subject matter, people will just go on talking while I'm sitting there trying to figure out how to enter the conversation. They seem to assume I'm quiet because I have nothing to contribute, but that's rarely the case, I just can't figure out how to join in. And it seems that no matter when I decide to join in it's the wrong time!
Once my supervisor said, right in front of me, 'Ha ha, isn't it funny how he'll just be sitting there and then all of a sudden start talking?'. And then the fact that when I do ahold of 'the floor' I can just go on talking forever seems to freak people out.
Sometimes it can be a problem when I'm just with 1 person - I've been in many a car ride where I was sitting there uncomfortably for long periods just trying to think of something to say, dead quiet. If the other person will start the conversation, I can participate, but I just can't seem to start a conversation myself.
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