Nearly every person I meet say that I am annoying????

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LittleSwallow
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31 Oct 2011, 5:56 pm

If I am really quiet and shy, I am annoying, but when I actually do speak, I am STILL annoying!

Emm..HELP ME! I am actually at my wits end here, because people in school complain about how I don't talk, so apparently what I am doing now is not good enough, and I don't know what to do!

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01 Nov 2011, 12:22 am

It sounds like the people in your school have problems. :\



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01 Nov 2011, 5:37 am

Sparx wrote:
It sounds like the people in your school have problems. :\


TELL me about it! They are never happy with anything I do! :/



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01 Nov 2011, 5:44 am

Are you trying too hard? Sometimes when I speak, I do it just to break the silence, it didn't matter what I say, I just wanted desperately to engage in an conversation, it was usually a random and stupid thing I brought up, thus the person whom I was engaging with saw me as annoying.



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01 Nov 2011, 12:25 pm

To LittleSwallow: Somehow, I can feel your pain... When I keep quiet, people ask for my opinion. Then, when I give my opinion, people get offended.



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02 Nov 2011, 8:50 am

icyfire4w5 wrote:
To LittleSwallow: Somehow, I can feel your pain... When I keep quiet, people ask for my opinion. Then, when I give my opinion, people get offended.


My dad wonders why we never talk.

Every time I talk about something I'm interested in, he doesn't want to hear it.

:roll: :lol: :(



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22 Nov 2011, 9:09 am

zer0netgain wrote:
icyfire4w5 wrote:
To LittleSwallow: Somehow, I can feel your pain... When I keep quiet, people ask for my opinion. Then, when I give my opinion, people get offended.


My dad wonders why we never talk.

Every time I talk about something I'm interested in, he doesn't want to hear it.

:roll: :lol: :(


That's the same with my mam! She goes on and on about stuff that I am usually not that interested in (like birds and grass...don't ask :/) but when I want to talk about stuff, she usually nods her head, or goes "Yeah" as if what I am talking about is something really boring! It's really frustrating! :/