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29 Feb 2012, 2:52 pm

Hello. My doctor has been trying to get me to be more social as he thinks it will help me. I'm not comfortable with groups or meeting people in person, unless I know them pretty well. I figured that a lot of WP seem to be nice, so I'd have a good chance of meeting someone who I can share myself with and they'll understand. I've also had very bad experiences with abuse from my male peers and other male strangers, so I tend to automatically view males as a threat. While I feel safer talking with a female, I don't mind a male friend as long as they can understand that I'll probably feel reserved at first.

Feel free to ask me questions here.

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01 Mar 2012, 9:36 am

Anyone?

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01 Mar 2012, 4:43 pm

Awwww....don't be so sad.

I'll talk to you if you wish, although I am a male, just so you know.

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01 Mar 2012, 4:45 pm

Hi, I'm FTM and chatty. Talk about whatever you'd like, I'll listen.

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01 Mar 2012, 8:26 pm

CrazyStarlightRedux wrote:

Awwww....don't be so sad.

I'll talk to you if you wish, although I am a male, just so you know.

Like I said, that doesn't bother me as long as I can feel comfortable with you. I like you avatar. I have a tattoo of a moogle on my calf

Do you like the new FF game?

Bun wrote:

Hi, I'm FTM and chatty. Talk about whatever you'd like, I'll listen.

I'm not sure what FTM means. To be honest, I'm terrible with open ended stuff and making decisions, but I'll give it a try. What did you do today?

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01 Mar 2012, 8:54 pm

Your welcome to PM me. I could some more online friends.

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01 Mar 2012, 9:43 pm

FTM means she's a female-to-male "transgendered" person, I believe.

You're welcome to talk to me, too, if you like. But be warned: I hate Chowder.

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01 Mar 2012, 10:17 pm

nick007 wrote:

Your welcome to PM me. I could some more online friends.

I saw a post of yours in a forum about BPD. I may have some questions for you. Am I thinking of the right person?

Cheshire wrote:

FTM means she's a female-to-male "transgendered" person, I believe.

You're welcome to talk to me, too, if you like. But be warned: I hate Chowder.

Awww radda. It's ok. I don't expect to have everything in common with my friends. What are your interests? Maybe we have some similar ones!

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01 Mar 2012, 10:29 pm

Shadewraith wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Your welcome to PM me. I could some more online friends.

I saw a post of yours in a forum about BPD. I may have some questions for you. Am I thinking of the right person?

I'm defiantly not an expert but I know a little about it

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01 Mar 2012, 10:34 pm

nick007 wrote:

Shadewraith wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Your welcome to PM me. I could some more online friends.

I saw a post of yours in a forum about BPD. I may have some questions for you. Am I thinking of the right person?

I'm defiantly not an expert but I know a little about it

Oh, I must have misread what you wrote. I was under the impression that you had it. Sorry about that >.>;;

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01 Mar 2012, 11:00 pm

Shadewraith wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Shadewraith wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Your welcome to PM me. I could some more online friends.

I saw a post of yours in a forum about BPD. I may have some questions for you. Am I thinking of the right person?

I'm defiantly not an expert but I know a little about it

Oh, I must have misread what you wrote. I was under the impression that you had it. Sorry about that >.>;;

You didn't misread it. I was diagnosed with it but I don't believe I have it now because I'm not having those emotional problems I was then. I have researched it a little & I've known people online who have it.

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02 Mar 2012, 1:59 am

Shadewraith wrote:

Awww radda. It's ok. I don't expect to have everything in common with my friends. What are your interests? Maybe we have some similar ones!

Computer games, reading, certain TV shows and movies. Usual geeky stuff.

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02 Mar 2012, 7:11 am

Cheshire wrote:

FTM means she's a female-to-male "transgendered" person, I believe.

You're welcome to talk to me, too, if you like. But be warned: I hate Chowder.

Usually in the case of FTM, it's more polite to use 'he'. But it's alright, I'm not uppity.

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02 Mar 2012, 9:17 pm

Bun wrote:

Usually in the case of FTM, it's more polite to use 'he'. But it's alright, I'm not uppity.

Sorry, I don't mean to be rude. I just think the whole transgender thing is kind of silly. But to each his own.

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03 Mar 2012, 1:41 am

You can PM me if you like. I'm a guy, but I'm not really rough or anything. Good listener (or reader?)

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03 Mar 2012, 1:46 am

Cheshire wrote:

Bun wrote:

Usually in the case of FTM, it's more polite to use 'he'. But it's alright, I'm not uppity.

Sorry, I don't mean to be rude. I just think the whole transgender thing is kind of silly. But to each his own.

Everything is silly until it's you.

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