OliveOilMom wrote:
It's really rude, but I've found that it's pretty common to blow somebody off like that if you will never see them again. I seem to hear of it happening more and more and people seem to think that it's ok to do it. I guess when it's done by the majority of the population or at least accepted as the norm, then it will stop being thought of as rude.
That just made me wonder something. Is there anything that is absolutely rude, no matter where it's done? I think so, but some things that I would consider very rude to do in any situation are polite in other cultures. Is rudeness just a cultural concept?
It is done because of what can blow up in your face, if you do it another way. Might just need to actually phone her, maybe its not her phone number.
( She still talking to you on FB? )
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