KingofKaboom wrote:
tall-p wrote:
It means, "I am here for you."
That's too literal of an interpretation and easily misunderstood.
The OP is a female herself. Another woman offered her an ear. Naturally, women like to listen and support eachother when they need the help and validate eachothers feelings and their right to their feelings. Guys on the other hand would rather go into their cave when they are stressed and handle things on their own first before saying anything about it.
OP, I believe she was being nice, and quite possibly sincere. You have an outlet to have your feelings discussed if you need to. If she won't listen, then you can find anyone else who will. You do have the right to discuss your feelings to whomever you trust.
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