NYAspie wrote:
That's as may be but when I mentioned it to my parents, my Dad thought I had made a selfish decision while my Mom shared your opinion. The initial guilt, such as it is, has since faded.
This sounds like my family, a bit. My sister is lower-functioning compared to me, and fades in and out socially. I've had times where I was exasperated trying to plan around her social phases, and sometimes that anger has carried over into situations where she didn't deserve it.
And, just like yours, another member of the family always reminds me that she lives her own life and it's her choice how much she wants to make the rest of us a part of it.