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Layla93
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21 Jul 2014, 10:16 pm

I have found myself in a mood to talk, kind of craving it. The only problem with this is I don't have any friends. Well no. I have 1 friend and an almost online friend. Neither of these people I talk to regularly.

I am really bad when it comes to social stuff and I end up having days where I don't want to talk to anyone and then I loose any of the friends that I kind of made when I was in a mood to talk.

I am just not quite sure what to do.

And i'm so picky about people. Today it has just been bothering me. The whole craving people and not having anyone to talk to. Any ideas?



auntblabby
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21 Jul 2014, 11:50 pm

rather than thinking of finding "must haves" in terms of people who meet your criteria for you wanting to know them, why not concentrate on avoiding the "must NOT haves" to avoid unsuitable people who are surely fewer than the people for whom it would be profitable for you to get to know better? most people if you give them a chance will make at least good acquaintances.



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22 Jul 2014, 7:49 am

Yep......Auntblabby offers good advice.