how do people view u

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People view me as very pleasant, outgoing, an extrovert (although I sort of hate people and have a social phobia), intelligent, attractive and strong willed. However I view myself as somewhat cynical although I smile a lot, not really interested in a deep relationship and quite apathetic. I deal with depression.

I've had people say I seem independen and mentally strong but also vulnerable at the same timr and people aren't sure what I'm thinking or what mood I might be in. :/ 3 ppl have said that

1. Weird
2. Hyper
3. Annoying
4. Crazy
5. Like being the center of attention
6. I used my Asperger's as an excuse to get away with things
7. Violent
8. Angry with my disability
9. Not all there
10. Bright
11. Intelligent

Most people look at me with repulsion, but only if I speak.

im extremely forgettable, but the people who do remember me describe me as quiet, forgetful and extremely loyal

Intimidating. Unapproachable. Angry. Negative. Annoying. Unappreciative. Withdrawn. Out of touch. Uninteresting. Depressed.

I have no idea, I'm not a mind reader and I've never asked.

Intelligent or stupid (depends on who you ask). Unsociable (everyone agrees on that). A bit weird.

I think a lot of people view me as very shy, not all there and unable to think for myself because of the way they treat me. I might also give off some kind of creepy vibe because a lot of people are uneasy around me.

I don't know what people think of me. I tend to think people are repulsed by me and wish I would go away, but I have too much evidence to the contrary. I have been on hiatus from work for a few weeks and when I have dropped by the office I was surprised at how many people seemed genuinely happy to see me.

My guess is that people see me as excessively serious, but a generally decent person. I think I'm boring and unappealing and yet people at work seem to want me to be part of their group. There is a huge difference between the way I see myself and the evidence I see for how people feel about me.

I suspect there are a lot of people here on this forum who feel like I do and yet are really liked far more than they know.

People tell me I am:
(Not in any order)

1. Weird
2. Quiet
3. Smart
4. A freak
5. Abnormal
6. Funny
7. Special
8. Unusual
9. Mature
10. A klutz
11. Hyper

Also:
'What's wrong with you?! !'
'You're awesome!'

I do notice that sometimes people talk to me in a higher-pitched voice, like they're talking to a toddler, so I'm not sure if they're just being nice. But then again, most of those people talk to everyone that way.

Here are some words I've heard people describe me with:
* Cold
* Savage (in the sense that I used to be quite strict and unforgiving with people)
* Confident(?)
* Weird
* Well-mannered
* Caring and compassionate once I warm up to someone
* Hyper
* Strange
* Understanding

It varies greatly. Different people can have very different views of me.

I don't know.. People don't generally try to get to know me..

I presume that they see me as aloof and stand offish and most likely intimidating.. I've had people refer to me " stuck up" before so I guess I'm probably right (related to how I dress also)

Hurtful but out of my control..

Annoying
Shy
Know it all
Narcosistic
Smart
Weird

Wrong!!