You Don't Need To Beat Yourself Up To Get Better

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You don't need to beat yourself everytime you make a mistake or fail at something to get better. Learn from the mistake or learn from the person scolding you for the mistake. Don't take the opportunity to beat yourself up for it, because then you aren't learning from your mistakes. Now I'm not saying don't admit that you make mistakes, because we should. But just don't beat yourself up for it.

Yep. Absolutely. No doubt!

I am forever looking back at things I did and cringing. I know you're right, I just... can't seem to act on it.

Right. Are you a psychologist?

No, but I'm not charging you any money for what I write and also I'm going to have to learn to give myself the benefit of the doubt next time I post something. I will suggest that you see a psychiatrist and a therapist more so than reading stuff on the internet.

Wow. That's hilarious.....It was an honest question and not deserving of a response like that.

HistoryGal, I strongly feel antagonized in your presence based on your responses. I also feel that you are trying to test me.

Nope. Not testing you. I was just questioning your approach.