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23 Jun 2024, 9:27 am

Last night some people ì know got my mobile of me to text this guy I know. I think they sent him some vulgar messages amongst other stuff


Anyway I texted him this morning to say it was not me who sent those texts. He sent me a voice message saying "Leaving me alone, I don't want to be around you anymore". I know you sent those texts and are playing the mental illness card"

Do you think I am going to get beaten up or confronted at the pub by him and his mates



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23 Jun 2024, 9:51 am

Did they steal your phone from you Jamesy


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23 Jun 2024, 9:58 am

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Did they steal your phone from you Jamesy



Yeah I think so



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23 Jun 2024, 10:05 am

That's not what decent people do. You know that don't you


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23 Jun 2024, 10:09 am

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That's not what decent people do. You know that don't you



The guy they texted knows virtually everyone in town



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23 Jun 2024, 10:16 am

How well does he know you


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23 Jun 2024, 10:18 am

Did you already have his number in your phone or did they put it in

Was it on the WhatsApp


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23 Jun 2024, 10:19 am

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Did you already have his number in your phone or did they put it in

Was it on the WhatsApp



Yeah it was on WhatsApp

He is not my closest of associates but I do know him



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23 Jun 2024, 10:32 am

And once he calms down do you think that he knows you well enough to understand that it wasn't you


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23 Jun 2024, 10:35 am

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And once he calms down do you think that he knows you well enough to understand that it wasn't you



No idea. I don't want to get into a confrontation at the pub



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23 Jun 2024, 10:38 am

Ok well you have to decide whether to go back there or not if you're truly scared

I'm sorry this has happened to you Jamesy


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23 Jun 2024, 10:40 am

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Ok well you have to decide whether to go back there or not if you're truly scared



I will go back of course. I think him saying "leave me alone" means he won't confront me

I am in a constant state of anxiety today. My parents are not back till tuesday



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23 Jun 2024, 10:50 am

OK well hell probably calm down from the whole thing anyway and he'll realise (if he's not already) that it was a prank

Are you in contact with the people who did this


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23 Jun 2024, 10:56 am

If he does confront you just point towards the people who did it and tell him that them dickheads stole your phone

Practice being calm even if you're bricking it on the inside


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23 Jun 2024, 12:09 pm

babybird wrote:
If he does confront you just point towards the people who did it and tell him that them dickheads stole your phone

Practice being calm even if you're bricking it on the inside



Those people may not be there when he confronts me



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23 Jun 2024, 12:23 pm

I think you'll be OK Jamesy


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