MissConstrue wrote:
I have this problem, something I've noticed since I've been on this site more. I don't know if I do it more in typing than in real life or both. Frankly in real life ppl aren't going to be that honest.
I'll sometimes joke with people and notice that they'll either get mad or take what I said in a literal since. Sometimes people know I'm kidding. I really try not to be sarcastic. I was raised with an alcoholic father who was humorously sarcastic. I don't know if that's from him or something else. I sometimes do feel misconstrued with what I say. The funny part about it is I don't handle other people's sarcasms or put downs for that matter. So I don't know if this is related to being passive aggressive or just socially inapproppriate....a part of AS. I've also been told I have a strange since of humor.
Does anyone else have this problem?
Hey! Whaddya mean by dat? (heehee) Anyway...
When people are being sarcastic in real life they usually deliver the line with a flat or intense look on their face and a monotone voice. Now, who do we know like that?
I posted in another thread about the "Aspie look" that a lot of us have a look to the eyes that's dry and almost sardonic. It's like we're thinking, "Oh, brother!" all the time.
I think we do have a dry sense of humor and it shows up in the posts here. That's why we have to be careful reading someone else's posts. I bet Dennis Miller has a lot of fans on WP.
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