A List of Dating sites for Aspies

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05 Feb 2011, 12:57 am

Aspie Affection Info: Created by Alex plank, the creator of WrongPlanet.net, Aspie affection gives people of the spectrum a chance to connect, and maybe find a love Match.

Autistic Dating info: Lacking in both design and members, you might try waiting awhile before looking for love here. The facebook page can be found below.

Autism Dating Info: Another Free dating site for people on the spectrum, from Classic Autism to Asperger's to HFA.



Asperger's and Autism Dating Groups On Facebook

ADHD + Asperger's dating! info: "A Site for like-minded individuals to chat and develop friendships and/or relationships, share information etc."

Asperger Dating Forum ( Aspie, Asburger, Aspergers Syndrome)

[url]=http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=15912303964]Aspie Dating For adults with Asperger Syndrome[/url] Info: " This group is for anyone interested in dating and or pursuing a relationship or general discussion. The group runs itself and there is no administrator."http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=15912303964

Aspie Dating UK Info: For all those lonely Aspergers hearts across the UK!
Find your soul mate" Be careful here. there are a LOT of fake female profiles on there. They have "sexy" profile pictures, and their interests are all very similar. they all have the same empty profiles as their friends,
too.

Aspie Dating Worldwide Info: "Dating and meeting a potential partner can be difficult for anyone with Aspergers so this group has been set up so that all Aspies around the world who are lonely in life whether they are gay or straight, male or female, black or white can find someone to love."

Asperger's/ASD Dating & Friendship The Facebook page for for AutisticDating.net


Please post more if you have any, and I will update the main list. :)



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05 Feb 2011, 7:22 pm

is aspie affection a pay site?



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06 Feb 2011, 1:45 am

Nope it's free. I guess i should have added, the ones listed are free sites. :)



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06 Feb 2011, 9:58 pm

You will find a few people with autism / Asperger's on dating websites for "disabled" individuals, e.g.
http://www.dating4disabled.com/
http://www.datedisabled.com/
http://www.datingdisabled.net/
http://www.whispers4u.com/

(Disclaimer: I have never used any of those websites.)



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08 Feb 2011, 9:42 pm

Logan5 wrote:
You will find a few people with autism / Asperger's on dating websites for "disabled" individuals, e.g.
http://www.dating4disabled.com/

I tried using D4D before but that site like most others had waaay to many guys for girls & a lot of the women were wanting a guy who's the opposite of a typical Aspie. I quit using it because I tried changing my email address & I apparently entered it wrong & couldn't relog in. I tried sending emails to em several times about it but I never heard back. I was talking with someone on Yahoo who uses it the other day & she told me that they are charging for membership now & the site is not as good as it used to be.

I don't think dating sites for Aspeis are a good idea unless the guys are gay because of the high ratio of Aspie men to Aspie women

I would recommend No Longer Lonely. It's a dating site for people with mental illnesses/disorders/issues & you can select Autism/Asperger's in a check-box for diagnoses. They also have a forum & another member there has mentioned probably having AS to. It's a pretty good site that's trying to grow. It's completely free but you can buy a membership for a one time $20 payment; you don't get many extra features/benefits but I think of it as a donation


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23 Jun 2011, 9:49 am

Try Aspie Connections. There is a good article on Aspies and dating.



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nick007 wrote:
Logan5 wrote:
You will find a few people with autism / Asperger's on dating websites for "disabled" individuals, e.g.
http://www.dating4disabled.com/

I tried using D4D before but that site like most others had waaay to many guys for girls & a lot of the women were wanting a guy who's the opposite of a typical Aspie. I quit using it because I tried changing my email address & I apparently entered it wrong & couldn't relog in. I tried sending emails to em several times about it but I never heard back. I was talking with someone on Yahoo who uses it the other day & she told me that they are charging for membership now & the site is not as good as it used to be.

I don't think dating sites for Aspeis are a good idea unless the guys are gay because of the high ratio of Aspie men to Aspie women

I would recommend No Longer Lonely. It's a dating site for people with mental illnesses/disorders/issues & you can select Autism/Asperger's in a check-box for diagnoses. They also have a forum & another member there has mentioned probably having AS to. It's a pretty good site that's trying to grow. It's completely free but you can buy a membership for a one time $20 payment; you don't get many extra features/benefits but I think of it as a donation

I am now recommending AVOIDING NoLongerLonely. I had been a member of there for a couple years. It is a great site with a lot of potential but there is one major problem. The webmaster, Jim does not listen or care about members & he also condones trolling. He personally reviews & approves each member’s profile. He allows a troll to have 3 different profiles there & after a couple weeks of complaints by lots of members; Jim approved for the troll to have a 4th profile that had an almost identical SN as one of his others that members had been reporting. I left NLL a few weeks ago because I do NOT want to be part of a site that will condone trolling; that gives people with mental issues a bad rep.


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25 Nov 2013, 9:14 pm

can anyone recommend a site that's actually good without trolls and the like



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08 May 2016, 7:51 pm

www.aspieology.com I think is a good website for autistic dating. I have an account there which I forgot my user right now.



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aspiebeauty87 wrote:
http://www.aspieology.com I think is a good website for autistic dating. I have an account there which I forgot my user right now.


Have these websites been effective? I tried an aspie dating site a while ago (forgot the name of it) but I couldn't find anyone in my area, and I live in a big city.


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17 Aug 2019, 10:25 am

Check out www.asdating.org - It's completley free to send messages and complete a detailed profile. We hope to bring together a community of people on the spectrum who can share their special interests and not feel judged or out of place.



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Here's Uneepi - Autism Dating & Social Community. The owner lives in the Bronx and visited one of the local in-person support group meetings earlier this year. Among other things, he claimed that his site has only a 2 to 1 male-to-female ratio due to successful recruitment of women from Felicity House here in NYC. (I don't know whether this is true or not.) I can't vouch for the site's quality, never having used it.

Someone should tell the owner that the puzzle piece logo isn't a symbol of the autistic community -- it's a symbol of the puzzled parents and the puzzled professionals, and some autistic people find it offensive due to its association with Autism Speaks.


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