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Maggiedoll
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17 Sep 2009, 11:46 am

CRD wrote:
I do like them to be touched but only in the right was other wise it just hurts and pisses me off,

Right.. but isn't that true of pretty much any body part?



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17 Sep 2009, 2:31 pm

Not to get to far in to my bedroom life. But I've under the right conditions I've orgazimed from having my breasts touched in just the right way but I do that fairly easly to the point were I'm the one at times rolling over and going to sleep and my husband is the one left wanting more.



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17 Sep 2009, 2:32 pm

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RESULTS: The major findings in regard to the women were that 81.5% reported that stimulation of their nipples/breasts caused or enhanced their sexual arousal

So why is it that none of us here get anything out of it? :?


I find it strange too. I don't have many sensory issues but my tactile sensitivity is ridiculous at times, there only seem to be very few areas that somehow don't respond to stimulation...
and actually, I can go crazy having a stray grain of sand in my bra and just scratch the hell out of it :p

someone said something about detachment - that rings a bell somehow but I can't really put my finger on it, I guess it's been to long and I don't even remember what it's like :p


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17 Sep 2009, 9:14 pm

Touching my breasts and nipples does absolutely nothing for me. I got my nipples pierced a few years ago and that made zero difference. Still nothing. Oh well. I like how they look, though sometimes I wish they weren't so small.



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18 Sep 2009, 6:29 pm

I have small breasts (size 34A, although in some bras I seem to be a B cup). I like the appearance of my breasts and my torso in general. My breasts are quite firm (particularly for my age) and I like how they look in clothes or naked. I would not like to have larger breasts. At times, many years ago when I was on the Pill, they became slightly larger, and I stopped the Pill because of that. I think my breasts suit my body and the way in which I move. I usually wear tight-fitting tops, although when I am teaching I dress more nerdy (and almost always in black only) so that the students will find my appearance boring and predictable and will focus on their work. (I teach adults.)

I have several medical problems with my legs and they are misshapen and very unattractive, but fortunately in a manner that is easy to disguise. Thus, I project most of my outward beauty through my upper body and through posture and the manner in which I move.

My breasts are definitely a sexual area for me, but I have some hypersensitivity problems. Sometimes I do not want them to be touched; it gives me a burning sensation almost like a rash. At such times, it is not only my breasts, but it also happens when my stomach or inner thighs are lightly touched. (I think there is a connection with stress and anxiety, but I am not sure. It is only since my autism diagnosis that I have begun to face these sensory issues and to learn what some of my hitherto unnamed emotions are called.)

At such times I prefer to be squeezed and hugged all over rather than stroked, because the movement over the skin feels awful. I then prefer sexual movements to be a variation in pressure rather than an actual rubbing movement.

But when I am not in one of those weird hypersensitive periods, then a light touch, or having my breasts kissed, creates great sexual arousal for me.


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