beejay
Sea Gull
Joined: 11 Sep 2009
Age: 44
Gender: Male
Posts: 236
Location: Wilmington, North Carolina
I have three sisters, and two of them have a habit of asking me whether something they are wearing either makes them look fat or stupid. I finally got sick of it and just started saying yes, even when they didn't look bad; they know I'm being sarcastic, and that's usually the end of it.
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I don't think you have to worry about him being honest with you. If you two tied the knot I sure he understands you enough by now.
Just don't be stressed out about your weight. As long as you not all skin and bones on one extreme or are morbidly obese on the over you are OK. Women in our society have a ton of more societal pressure about their weight then us guys do and it seems to be why most anorexics are female, it's disgusting.
YAY, my 2000th post!
Quoting Spokane_Girl
Oh boy, I can identify with that. That happened to me all the time in school, but I didn't think it would happen to me in work, and it was much worse in work. I couldn't believe it either. How can people be like that? But there was one person who liked to turn the truth upside down and that was even weirder. She would come to me saying all kinds of mean things about a person and I would say, "Really? I think so & so is really nice. I don't think she's the way you say she is at all." The next day I would see this person in the hall with the person she said those awful things about, acting like she was her best friend. And then, that person she talked about would start acting very strange and distant to me. I think the person A who bad mouthed the other person B told the other person B that I said all those things instead of herperson A to make person B not like me any more. Doesn't it get confusing? Even trying to write about it is hard and confusing. I could never be that deceitful. It's too much work. LOL
Sorry for such a long post. I think you can trust your husband for the truth. From what you have written in other posts, you seem to have a really good and tight relationship with him and he seems like a very caring and honest person.