Definitely. I've noticed it has to do both with the importance of the person in my life, and how resolved the situation is... the more important, and the less resolved, the more I am unable to resist its intrusiveness...
To a certain extent everyone, AS and NT alike, does this. I've certainly had off-the-cuff things I've said to someone brought up years later, long past my remembering them. It obviously hit a button in the other person, though, and they haven't been able to let it go.
I do think in AS cases, we do it more because of the lifelong social ineptitude making us more and more sensitive to other's remarks and judgements... we get more practice, in other words.
And we have that perseveration part of our brain more developed, the 'experts' say. I do wonder if that's a result of nature or nurture, though.
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