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Bland
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18 Mar 2006, 12:23 am

Who_Am_I wrote: The shallowness of the average human being....
It's depressing, isn't it?


So poignant, so true.


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18 Mar 2006, 5:16 pm

Aspies are human too. They have the same wants, needs, drives and passions.

That said, Aspies do the SAME thing when they find a group situation that they are comfortable with. They shun, ignore and censor poeple they don't like or whom they don't want to like or be associated with them.



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28 Mar 2006, 2:37 pm

Lots of times I've said something and thought everyone was ignoring me, but subsequently realised that they just couldn't hear me (I mumble).



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28 Mar 2006, 5:40 pm

If someone starts ignoring you, they're not the sort of person you want as a friend anyway. Sometimes you get to the point where you've made enough of an effort and shouldn't be making any more effort.

I must confess, I might seem like I ignore people sometimes, but that's down to shyness. But sometimes you can just tell someone is ignoring you, or not keeping in touch, intentionally.