Any creative writers out there?

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I always dreamed of writing nonjudgmental books about the damage of social stigma and isolation on the human soul, hoping to motivate people to compassion and acceptance of people who are different.

I have finally collapsed under the weight of social stigma and lack of compassion so that I could never succeed for my inabilithy to remove judgment from my writing. If I succeeded in teh writing itself, merely mentioning that I am capable of getting a standing ovation from an audience of 1500 (when I have a pre-written script in front of me) moves them to call me a liar.

I have given up on saving myself let alone society. But it doens't remove my need to write. I am going to die from the isolation alone if I don't write. I need some feedback on one of the following questions or just comments in general.


1. How do I start a blog? I know nothing about that, but would feel safer with a (no cost) blog in which I feel reasonably safe from attack from the society who drove me to silence.

2. How do I let go of my need to be heard to write unpublished books without readers in total silence?

3. How do I return to the lack of judgment? How do I care enough about myself to honor myself and need to communicate if nobody else cares or responds to the soul beneath the oddness? How do I give up reaching out?

What you are describing is exactly what I want to do. I have held on to the dream of being a published author since I was six--more than half a century. I am having trouble psychologically moving from weiting for an audience to writing for my own healing, writing what I need to, instead of writing what I should.

Ps I don't know where my glasses are--please forgive the typos-Ican barely see the print.

Any time you have competition, you have judgment. Any time you have more than one piece of writing, you have competition.

Now you can approach this in 2 ways; constructive criticism, or destructive. If it's destructive, ignore it. If someone is trying to help you become better, then that's actually a good thing.

You can approch some people as editors, it's part of any process of getting published (unless you go on Print on Demand, or Vanity Press publishing)

Write for yourself, for enjoyment, for fun...that's all that really matters.

I'm taking an online class and working on a sci-fi novel.

I think some of the best advice is to 'just start'.
You've spent enough time thinking and analyzing.
Find a book on the shelf that covers some of the themes you want to write about so you can refer to it for mechanical advice.

By the way, great topic. I'm working in the same vein.

Well I don't know if it's just me - but other writers I have met have said similiar - that writing is probably the loneliest profession there is. You need to be comfortable with sitting at a typewriter, notepad or computer with just your fingers and words for long stretches of time. So writing is probably not going to be a cure for loneliness, rather its like a manifestation of it, so you have to be okay with it to a certain degree. Anyhow just my opinion.

The people who've said "just start" are right. If you don't start, you won't start.

I'm not sure if you're writing fiction or non-fiction, but if it's fiction, I'd suggest summarising the theme that you're trying to write into a single sentence and put it over your writing area. Romeo & Juliet - "Great loves defies even death". It's valid for non-fiction too.

Regarding blogs, you can get a free one from wordpress and set user comments to restricted.

But I'll give you one big secret about writing - and most people don't do it - and that is pick an audience. Now I know you're saying about just writing for yourself and forgetting about the adulation part - but that's not what I mean. Alot of writers go "I'm writing this for sci-fi fans ages 15-35" etc. That's not an audience. It's so hard to write for such a sweeping demographic most people get so muddled they try to please everyone and fall flat in the process.

What I'm talking about is writing for a person - just 1 person - a living person, preferably one that you know, or that you know of, that you feel would benefit from the experience of reading your work. And then write it with them in mind.

If you become comfortable with writing for just 1 person, you will find it easier to focus on what you want to say and discover that there are thousands of others who are similar to them.

Just write for 1 and let that 1 be enough.