Ok, so let me ask this... Is being assertive listening to my needs and trying to take care of myself even if it means unintentionaly huring others becasue they don't understand my needs?
Sometimes am so overhelmed with life (noises, etc.) that I have to ask my husband to watch over our daughter even when I know he is tired after work and I sometimes feel sorry for him. Phisicaly I could watch over our daughter then, but it seems to be too difficult for me at that moment, I have no patience at all and am feeling overhelmed even more, but I could devote myself somehow. My husband understands me but I do feel egoistic! Am not sure if you understand me... Am I egoistic or not? But as I said, in some other cases people won't understand me and think am lazy!
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