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moomin
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24 Mar 2006, 2:12 pm

i've been invited to an engagement party tonight, but can't decide wether to go.
Part of me says i should go, as i don't often get invited anywhere! but the other part of me just wants to sit at home in front of the computer. I put off going out because i usually end up sitting alone like a lemon(almost wrote melon then!). Also, it's going to be full of goths..and i always stick out cause i'm soo not goth!
harumph!



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24 Mar 2006, 2:45 pm

revel in your individuality then, at least with your not being goth it will be a talking point!!

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24 Mar 2006, 5:13 pm

compromise. go out for a little while. if you like it, stay. if you don't, smile, make an excuse, and go home.



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24 Mar 2006, 5:56 pm

didn't go...
i'm a miserable cow
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24 Mar 2006, 8:33 pm

moomin wrote:
didn't go...
i'm a miserable cow
bah


I'd rather be a goth.


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24 Mar 2006, 11:57 pm

I choose to be a Swinger. :P



joranxerix
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25 Mar 2006, 12:11 am

Goths are so 90s. Who cares about them? :lol:



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25 Mar 2006, 11:00 am

moomin wrote:
didn't go...
i'm a miserable cow
bah

And you'd have felt better by going?

There are times when I'm invited to things and I'll remark to a trusted (in as much as I give trust) individual that I don't want to go.

"It's a free meal!" they'll say.

"I'd rather starve."



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25 Mar 2006, 11:21 am

If I'm motivated, that's not a problem for me. If I'm not, that's a whole different story.


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25 Mar 2006, 3:17 pm

Force yourself out next time, force yourself out a few times after that, and if a few of them click with you and are good then it might get easier to leave the house.



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25 Mar 2006, 9:41 pm

Since you're not Goth you would have stuck out in the crowd and taken notice but some onlookers who might have fancied you.


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