ruveyn wrote:
The surest way of avoiding disappointment is to have low expectations.
ruveyn
This is what I have learned my self.
Most people are unreliable and can't be counted on , even for little things , and I plan a worse case scenario as an alternate.
Once I admonished an in-law about this , as opportunity presented, and the remark was " That's cynical".
My in-law gets bent out of shape to large degree when people dont line up to expectations or 'the plan'.