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Ah! I see now. My bad.
Though, I personally doubt you have to worry much about this... My impression(possibly wrong?) is that most people don't let their faith intrude in their sex life.
Oh no you di'int, @Sound! Actually, I think we're giving advice for different situations. Your approach seems to relate to how to approach compromise when it comes to sex/sexual preferences. I totally agree with your advice.
I read Tim_Tex's question as asking what to do when attempts at compromise have failed - I do think it's best to move on when that happens.
Ooh, Good point. Misunderstood, then. Yep, agreed again, as usual.
Dude your trolling style is really feelin old. Mix it up a bit, troll in some other manner, else you'll get typecast, and wont be able to flex the range of roles you can troll from. Gotta keep it fresh.
Send em my way!!
Dude your trolling style is really feelin old. Mix it up a bit, troll in some other manner, else you'll get typecast, and wont be able to flex the range of roles you can troll from. Gotta keep it fresh.
What are you talking about?
As I said, that's possibly more a cultural thing, around here it's not unusual for four generations (grandparents, parents, children and grandchildren) to live together in the same home...
Yeah, true. That would be fine, in Western European countries, US, UK, Aus, NZ, it's considered strange to be living with your parents when you're working/finished being a student.
Spain is western.
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i know i'll never have friends or boyfriends in my life, but these are what turn me off from people (and what i stay away from):
1) arrogance/cockiness/big ego
2) ignorance/one-track mind
3) smokers
4) addicts (alcohol/drugs/sex, etc.)
5) aggression/violence
6) dishonesty
7) fakeness (personality/physically)
8 ) misogyny/sexism
9) attention whores
10) dominance
11) materialism
12) irresponsibility
13) lack of judgment/no common sense/stupidity
14) promiscuity
15) infidelity
all that and everything else that comes with them.
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As I said, that's possibly more a cultural thing, around here it's not unusual for four generations (grandparents, parents, children and grandchildren) to live together in the same home...
Yeah, true. That would be fine, in Western European countries, US, UK, Aus, NZ, it's considered strange to be living with your parents when you're working/finished being a student.
Spain is western.
According to some of its detractors (no, I'm not one of them), Spain is part of Africa...
I don't like this either. However, consider the viewpoint that these girls are severely ill in a way that is difficult for us to understand. Still, it's a turnoff and I'm sure they'll understand your reasons if you don't want to get into a relationship with one of them. On the other hand, I do get quietly very angry when I see that a woman has done this to herself, whatever the reason.
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"Everyone loves the dolphin. A bitter shark - emerging from it's cold depths - doesn't stand a chance." This is hyperbol.
"Run, Jump, Fall, Limp off, Try Harder."
The only criteria i have is somebody i can relate to.
If i cant relate to them and feel comfortable around (i dont think the two are mutually exclusive), even if i do like them, i dont think it would be fair for me to start dating them.
Also I have this problem where by I keep questionning, and feeling that everybody and everything around me is little more than a figment of my imagination. i.e Once i feel that the other person "exists" as a person with a mind of their own (and therefore relate to them) would i feel comfortable in creating a loving relationship with them.
However i have a hunch that that will probably never happen.
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Religious and political extremists.
Smoking.
A girl that doesnt use her brain or one that have kids.
Any of those things = Immediate "bye bye".
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What turns Felgen off:
- Stupidity (yes, stupid girls are annoying)
- Spineless girls that let me boss them around and always agree to everything
- Unattrative appearance (looks aren't that important, but I can't 'choose' to fall in love with a girl I don't find attractive)
- Beeing a fanatical religious activist
- Beeing a fanatical atheist activist who hates people that doesn't agree with her
Turn-offs...
-Sports fanatic
-Smokes
-Over tanned
-Glitter
-Just isn't cute or cool
-Smells strange
-Super opinionated
-Loud
-Ignores me
-Religious Evangelicalism
-No libido
-Has a boyfriend
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Borderline personality disorder.
Before I met my wife, I was involved with a woman who I thought I was head over heals in love with, who happens to have had BPD. She used me and abused me, took my money, and even took my mom's money. She knew how to use her son, who both my mom and I absolutely loved, to take advantage of us. And did I mention how she cheated on me? Or how after she left me for an ex boyfriend (who had beaten her), she had strung me along with promises of coming back to me? And when she did leave him, it was for a guy who ended up beating her son. Thankfully, Child Protective Services ended up saving her child from both of them. I know this is a genuine disorder, but because I was victimized by a person with it, it's hard for me to be sympathetic toward the rest of the breed. Just because a woman has this disorder doesn't excuse her if she's a crazy, manipulative... er, I'll just say witch.
Sorry if I offended any crazy, manipulative witches.
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Borderline personality disorder.
Before I met my wife, I was involved with a woman who I thought I was head over heals in love with, who happens to have had BPD. She used me and abused me, took my money, and even took my mom's money. She knew how to use her son, who both my mom and I absolutely loved, to take advantage of us. And did I mention how she cheated on me? Or how after she left me for an ex boyfriend (who had beaten her), she had strung me along with promises of coming back to me? And when she did leave him, it was for a guy who ended up beating her son. Thankfully, Child Protective Services ended up saving her child from both of them. I know this is a genuine disorder, but because I was victimized by a person with it, it's hard for me to be sympathetic toward the rest of the breed. Just because a woman has this disorder doesn't excuse her if she's a crazy, manipulative... er, I'll just say witch.
Sorry if I offended any crazy, manipulative witches.
-Bill, otherwise known as Kraichgauer