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22 Apr 2010, 7:27 am

I Dont Know If It Goes Under This Post Or Not, But Hey, Its Here Now

My Point Is, Is It Wrong That I Really Love Hugs ? I Mean, When I Get A Hug, I Feel Really Good, And Ive Been Told Several Times That When Someone Hugs Me, I (Allegedly) Refuse To Let Go At Times. Plus Its Only Girls I Can Hug, I Have A Problem With Hugging Boys.

Is It Bad I Really Love Hugs?

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22 Apr 2010, 8:35 am

As my mother used to tell me

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"your right to swing your fist ends where the other fellow's nose begins."

Which is my way of saying that you can like hugs all you want, but the moment it becomes a problem for the huggee, you gotta respect their wishes.

if you can't respect their wishes, then you had better not hug.

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25 Apr 2010, 7:35 am

Yeah.

Don't be afraid to ask if someone wants a hug or not.

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25 Apr 2010, 8:04 pm

I have mixed feelings about hugging. I don't think hugs belong in the workplace and should be kept only on one's social circle. I did find myself comfortable hugging a lot of dudes (including strangers) in a sports bar last nite after our Rockies beat the Marlins 8-1. Of course by then I was pretty "buzzed", which changes my personality to the pointe where I may have actually initiated some of these hugs myself.
I guess I think hugs should solely be a gesture of positive enforcement. The times I've found hugging most inappropriate was when it was used as a method of condolence. I have the type of mindset where the last thing I want after experiencing a tragedy like the loss of somebody close is physical contact.

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10 Aug 2010, 10:05 pm

i love hugs...of girls. that much i remember em all in my head and playback em like a dvd player lol. My favourite hug was probably my 249th hug last saturday lol or march 20nd 2009 friday i think:)

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11 Aug 2010, 9:59 am

Nope, but it IS bad that you really love capitalizing every word

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12 Aug 2010, 9:25 pm

I love hugs too!

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22 Aug 2010, 9:42 pm

I don't much like hugs- just not a fan and I jump like I have been shocked when someone just taps on me for emphasis or to get my attention. If someone were to not let go after pushing a hug on me I think I might need therapy for a while.

I just got a migraine from the crazy capitalization on the original post. At first, I thought there might be a special code or anagram in the caps, but alas this is not the case.

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23 Aug 2010, 3:22 am

i love hugs with a girlfriend. otherwise not so keen. most guys are smelly too. i think smell is the most offputting thing about a hug for me

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27 Oct 2010, 9:42 am

LOVE hugs and my hair been stroked but absolutly under no circumstance touch my bleedin skin god thats irritating.

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