IamTheWalrus wrote:
IamTheWalrus wrote:
ninja4life wrote:
Why are aspie girls so ungry...I saw that some aspie girls said in forums that prefer to do their lifes with nts than with aspies....just trying to get to a point here......why are aspie girls/women so irritated.
au contraire monsieur, women with aspergers seem more inclined to pick a man with aspergers, whereas guys with aspergers tend to pick NT women
I shall try to find the source of this information, but it seems you got it wrong
hehe I am so selfabsorbed I even quote myself
my source: Maxine Aston in an interview for ENGAGEMENT met Autisme
i dont think it's even necessary to find a source; it seems like it'd be obvious statistically speaking. there are more men with AS and less women with AS, that leaves those men to seek out relationships with NT women if they want to have any relationships at all.
as for whether women with AS like NT men, i couldn't speak for the whole population of us. while it's occurred to me that a man with AS might be more suitable than an NT, i've never met a man with AS that i'm attracted to or who is even around my age.
one issue i did have is that when i met a guy with AS, he immediately hit on me. this was a bit off-putting since we'd just met, he was 10 years older than me, and i wasn't interested in him at all. possibly if men with AS are less able to gauge a woman's receptiveness this may inhibit their ability to go out with said woman. in my case, i reacted quite badly to his advances because i've viewed them as inappropriate especially timing-wise.
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